I will NOT be a swinger, or be married to someone who is. He knows this.

It does concern me that he was looking at doing so during the A, with his AP, who would have done so according to the emails between them that I read.

It seems like even in their bad boundaries of having an A, they had even worse boundaries. If that makes sense?

I have an employee who works for me that does this, and she has 4 STDs and is an emotional mess. She's a poster child for anti-swinging. ICK.

Me: BW, 46
Him: WH, 48
EA/PA with co-worker 8-08 to 7-09
D-day 7-29
NC 8-17
OW and WH both fired from jobs
OW lost court case for restraining order- judge called her a "practiced deciever" who manufactured evidence!!