He hadn't but he wanted to - and so did she. Actually having those emails has helped us in court while she played "harrassment victim" because our attorney actually tracted down two of the swingers and got statements from them.

The employee is actually in another state - I am a regional director for a large company and never see her. Her supervisor told me the details....ick!

I am still worried that swinging is something he wants, and could be a dealbreaker.

Me: BW, 46
Him: WH, 48
EA/PA with co-worker 8-08 to 7-09
D-day 7-29
NC 8-17
OW and WH both fired from jobs
OW lost court case for restraining order- judge called her a "practiced deciever" who manufactured evidence!!