I first visited this site after I got pregnant after an A. So many of you gave me the advice I needed to save my M, despite insurmountable odds against me...an OC, an OM fighting to keep OC (and me) in his life, an angry BH, visitation/custody issues, court battles... Just thinking about the drama makes my pulse race.

However, God has a way of restoring things, and He certainly gave me a miracle that I didn't deserve. After working really hard to bring romance and trust back into my M, and following Dr. H's advice to a T, I am happy to say that my M is beautiful and passionate. I've set strict but healthy boundaries for myself. The OM left for good after he realized that OC was not going to get him access to me, and best of all (here's the miracle), we discovered that OC's DNA test results were faked by OM. BH is indeed the bio-dad.

Yes, we kind of went broke from the court battle, and yes, our M took a hard hit and I was an emotional wreck for a long time. But when finally BH and I both invested in love building instead of love busting, things took an amazing turn emotionally for us. And a chance DNA test on our own showed OC to be ours, not from the A. Personally, I wondered if it was a gift from God to my BH for all he went through. smile

So, I wanted to share that with those who followed my thread, supported me, bashed me (cuz I needed it back then!), and guided me to this place. I seriously don't know where I'd be without you all... I shiver to think about it.



Me: WW
BH
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DS(2)
DD(1)

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)