True. Definitely a lesson we wish we would have learned sooner.

Although the biggest lesson for us was maintaining no contact and making things as difficult for OM as possible. NC was the primary reason OM walked away--that, along with child support. If any other WS with OCs run into a similar issue, give no mercy!

Me: WW

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)