Originally Posted By: MelodyLane
Originally Posted By: JBD
Just out of curiosity, as I have never tried to do any of this, I must defer top those who have. What do you say if you spouse finds the spyware?


Nothing. The spouse just needs to quietly find another, more successful way to snoop.


Same sound advice I once received from MelodyLane & she was absolutely right I needed better snooping skills.
Originally Posted By: MelodyLane

Yes, you should not tell him your methods of tracking for the reasons you stated. The policy of radical honesty does not apply to infidelity or abuse, so once a spouse is found guilty of infidelity, they should never be told about your tracking methods.

A wayward spouse should welcome this because it proves his faithfulness while it gives you peace of mind. It is win/win.

My advice to you is to learn to be a better snooper so your methods are not discovered! grin


FS of 27yrs
BW
DDay 11/2013
Began MB Seminar 7/2014
H quit MB Seminar 10/2014
Filed for D 11/17/2014
PB 12/18/2014
D 07/29/2015