My H is addicted to the internet, but he did all his sneaking around while at work. He had his internet access at work denied, but I know how easy it is to get access. He used to go to the library before church meetings at night. I thought he would go to kill time and read the paper - how dumb was I.<P>For a while a couple months ago I would find new e-mail addresses and I found he had set up a folder for on-line personal ads meeting his standards. The folder was titled "my desire". I think of that all the time when I think I'm the lie.<P>The computer can be evil and it's so scarry.<P>Good luck.