hi girls,,,,,, so nice to see you and some other old names like btdt again. hope things are going well for all.

gem,,,,,, please don't get me wrong i don't think fh has any romantic feelings for om. i just meant that when a woman has a child and loves that child with all her heart. it would seem that somewhere there is a soft spot for the father. i say this because in my own experience (although not from an A but from lack of responsibility of two young people) i have always had a soft spot for my oldest son's mom. nothing romantic just thankful for the the joy she brought into my life and hopeful that nothing bad fell upon her.

then after being married for 20 odd years fh has another man's child. those feelings whether om is involved or not thru visitation i feel are bound to be there.