Hi HIA,

How are you doing? Were your ears burning? LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I was just talking about you to another MBer. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> She is in the AZ area (can't remember which city) and I was hopin' I could hook you 2 up. She is havin a hard time and doesn't get to post here too much.

I have thought about you and HopelessinNY? Can't remember her exact user name. I'll have to look it up at home.

take care,
L.

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Yes, Yes I'm here.

Was just lurking a bit today and this was the last post on the page!

Thanks for thinking of me. I would love to help out. Just let me know.

Still hashing out details of D.....but moving on nicely with my life. I love my job as a dental assistant and don't even resent going back to school too much.

I would be more than happy to lend an ear to help a fellow MBer. I recently met a guy whose wife left him for a friend. He's very bitter still. He tells me he isn't but his language tells me otherwise.

So glad to hear that your recovery continues to go well. I know you went through a lot to get to where you are today. I sometimes still wish that just once my STBXWH would have said he wanted to try and make it work but he took off running and never looked back <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> . We are in a battle now because I would not just give him his 50% equity in the house without a property settlement. It ruined his plans to move to Norway and be with the OW and now she told him it is over because he can't committ.

Anyhow direct me to the poster and I will make contact and see if she lives nearby.

Nice talking to you Orchid.

Take Care

Dear Hope,

So good to hear from you. U sound sooo much stronger. I think we have both grown stronger compared to where we were last year!!!

I am glad you are moving forward with your life. Sounds like your H is on shakey ground. So much for that 'ever loving OW in NOrway'. Seems like when the $$ didn't commit to her, she flew the coop! Well he is seeing where his actions led him.

Have you heard from Hopeless in NY? Still not sure of her user name. We seemed like a trio at one time all writing late at night - remember? LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Oh by the way, howz hm..... I must be getting old, I remember him from the d/d site, the dj guy? I don't get over there much anymore, but once in a while I stop by. This site keeps me real busy.

Thanks for your help, I will get back to you soon. My new addy is: MBOrchid@hotmail.com

Thanks,
L.

Wasn't it ScaredinNY?

Yes, STBXWH is still not a real happy guy. Actually said that D was really just trading in one set of problems for another. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Are you thinking of Hopelessmom? Haven't heard from her in ages. Last she posted she was doing okay. Still lots of anger.

Haven't heard from cjack in a long while either. Heard him on the radio at work one day but that was months ago.

I miss Cooker, Jawhawk, Grandpabari(? or something like that, sorry if you are lurking) Cooker and cjack were some of the first to reply in my dark days. Thank goodness for this site!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> BrambleRose was also a great help in those days as well as yourself and others. I check on you and BR to see how recovery goes.

Just finished burning a new CD to use for cycle class tomorrow....oh yeah....along with my new job and school I've also started teaching indoor cycle classes (AKA Spin). It is a blast and keeps me at the gym...no membership fee when you instruct!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Need to get my song list printed and ready to go.

Chat at you soon.

Take Care