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I'm sorry this was so long but boy did I have some venting to do. I guess I forgot to ask my question and that is how do you forgive someone who has really never shown any remorse??? He wants me to stop digs & jabs and he has also wanted me to forget the past so that we could have tried to get back together again but he never left the OW. Yet I was supposed to stop talking about the past. Everytime I would ask "what past, you're still w/ her". He would get mad & not say anymore. So how do you forgive??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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I am a newbie and I hope you get an answer from one of the more experienced board members as I asked the same question ...sorta.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I read "forgiving the unforgivable"...(sorry will try and find the name of the author for you later) and it dealt with intimate wounds that may be healed with a process that does not require the person who hurt you to be involved. It is harder but as it says " forgiveness is a gift you give yourself".
I am trying to work it through too. With Good luck and god willing it may happen soon...
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