Baby Blue,
I just love saying this: You women just don't get it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Look at what turned your H on, look carefully. The way you dressed: casual. The pony tail: girl next door. You are out doing something physical, not buffing the nails. Jeans may accentuate a good part of your anatomy.
Getting any clues? Could be what turns him on is YOU. Just as you are. I could get a bit more explicit, but the point is you doing things and just being you does turn him on.
Now, the other suggestions really work. Doing something like kissing him, giving him a hug (just because) most men really respond to physical contact. I could be you just looking in his eyes gets to him.
Women don't understand men find beauty in women in so many ways. BUT... the women tend to down play it or hide it. We fixate on physical things. Yes the obvious and well known ones: breasts, tush, etc. But it can be hands, the shape of the neck, feet, legs, those dimples in the back where the hips form, smell, the color of the eyes, hair. It could be the bulky sweat shirt where it isn't obvious if something is underneath it or not. It could be a panty line OR no panty line.
Do you get the idea? Men notice all sorts of things about women. Far more than women realize, but we may not be able to tell you what color dress you wore last week. We see shape, form, motion and many things. And we never tell: it is in our union contract. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
If women only knew or more precisely believed us. We don't worry about weight nearly as much as we do grooming. We can be turned on by so many things, if a woman has the right attitude.
I have a question for you. How did you find out that your H was turned on by you in the jeans, sweet shirt, and pony tail? He told you didn't he. Did you give him, the "you've got to be kidding" look? Or did you smile and thank him?
If you become aware enough of him to notice when he is aware of you: THAT IS ROMANTIC. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Are you confused yet? It really is so simple, but it is hard to define because what we see and sense is pretty ephemeral with regard to women.
What is romantic? A woman that wants to be with us, accepts us, and even looks up to us.
By the way round is good. If you think about it we are attracted to most parts of women that are round. Isn't that strange. Have no idea why.
Must go. I hope this has given you food for thought.
JL
