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Friend of a friend told me when and where and who and all the what last night, he said he thought i knew, and was just wondering when i was going to kill him. Feeling like killing today hoping to handle this with grace and dignity.
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Don't you feel that you need to first see if for yourself and not go by what someone is telling you? The friend of a friend may be gossiping.
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Sara what's up? How is it going. Thinking of you...
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Dear Mimi,
Well, if the friend wasn't a long time friend, with nothing to gain, maybe. anyway. it fits. I will keep trying to see for myself.
DB,
Where have you been, i hope things are better in your world than they are in mine, How are your kids. Basketball is over?
Ok, very brief update.
I have been plan a'ing my days away. all to not much avail it seems like. A friend of my H who is also a friend of mine finally broke the "BOYS club RULES and spilled his guts. Of course i can't tell H who it is, wouldn't dream of it. anyway. I know that his affair is ongoing. And i will catch him personally if need be. He of course is lying. I am good at spoting it, he has been doing it for almost two years. He chews his lip a little when he is lying.
I know where they meet and i know when they meet and i know that they are still having @@@ and all. I am putting all of my effort into catching him i need it for closure. There will be no going back. Anyway. I missed you.
Sara
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Notgoingtodothis,
Please contact me, I have been following your thread for two days if not more.
I can Identify with you.
Ineed to be in contact with you.
Email me please.
<small>[ March 07, 2003, 12:12 AM: Message edited by: BarbT ]</small>
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notgoingtodothis. good girl. I think when a man breaks down and tells you as a friend, it's because they've lost respect for the H cheating on his wife. They all brag, but most counseling books I've read say they lose respect for their buddies when they see the wife getting hurt.
I'd believe him! And follow up with camera and take pictures! Then give old H a choice right then and there.
Some will say not, but if you don't, he'll simply keep playing his games expecting you've seen and done nothing!
Time for decisions on his part.
LouLou
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