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#1092341 09/24/03 03:31 PM
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Hi all,

I have receive a few interest to get together again. I don't know about everyone but how about 10/18 or 10/25 around 11:00 AM (we have lunch first <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> )?. Anyone bringing their kids ?, if there is it would be on 10/25. Adult only like last time would be 10/18. Orchid might not make it ... the last one last too long for her <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . Aside from transportation, we could coordinate car pool ... where we should go ?. Santana Row or Metreon again or any suggestions ?. The date could be moved ... this is POJA time ... LOL !.

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Hi RH,since I miss the last meeting, I guess I will at least try the next one with Blah?! How about hiking? Orchid has to come because she will walk around with more chocolate, she is the Aunty Chocolate <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Whatever everyone else wants to do or votes to do, I am in,OK. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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RH & Wangi,

No kids is probably better but I can go either way. Right now either date is open.

I liked the metreon but we didn't get to bowl. So maybe if we plan for it to be longer.......

I think I need to explain Wangi's Aunty Chocolate description. For those of you who knew about when we went to the San Francisco zoo get together, I walked around with a box of Hawaiian macadamiam chocolate (small box) so that MBers could find me. LOL!!! Also a way to share some fun stuff together. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I think there are a lot more from around this area.

Don't be afraid to join us. It was fun and 'educational'. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

For the shy bound, my addy: MBorchid2@yahoo.com

#1092344 09/24/03 05:06 PM
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Wangi,

Hiking ??? ... I think the weather won't permit us by then. I look into it, I know peninsul trails is very beautiful ... could go for 1 mi. to 20 miles <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> , I am up to it but I don't know everyone else. Unless supermom would bring her kids & objection ... the date is on 10/18 11:00PM. Place ???, Metreon for now unless there are better place in Santana row or someplace else. If we have to go south bay you have the resposibilty to pick up LuLu, she needs a ride.

Orchid,

I could go either way too. I live in half way between SJ & SF.

So tentative 10/18 @11:00AM at Metreon unless there are more objection or suggestion.

-rh-

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It all depends on the weather,I am open to indoor or outdoor..I almost forgot I have golf lessons starting 10-11..6-7pm in SF,I guess the "meeting" would end by then?? Anyway,we make sure Blah joins
us,OK...and Mr. K too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> How about Crystal Springs? And; we can probably arrange car pooling with Lulu since we reside in the city.OK.

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Wow ... finally we will meet blah <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> , I am sure mr. K will come ... you can't separate them ... LOL !. I think we settle for Metreon for now, I was in San Bruno this afternoon and it is getting cold.

I don't know if we will finish by 6PM ... However you could leave anytime ... but if you were there last week I don't think you want to leave ... LuLu was telling her situation.

Btw, OMExW will come and bring her freind (BS also). It would be very interesting. My ExW A could be disect from the opposite point of BS's view.

-rh-

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RH,now I am unsure if Blah would go but I will try...no demand,you know. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Metreon is fine with me,I only been there once or twice. And either date is fine with me for now. Will leave by 5:15 or so. Hopefully Blah will go?! I will be happy to see you all again and to meet Lulu & T1 as well <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Bump for the weekend crowd ... ^^^ J.R. will come ... OMExW & her freind (BS) are coming too. This time will be larger crowd <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> .

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^^^ BUMP ^^^

10/18 11:00PM-whatever @Sony Metreon, SF. Lunch then yapping <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

Let me know if you really want to come but could make it b/c of the date ... we have optional date of 10/25.

Look for row call & RSVP very soon <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ... need to send your cell# to Orchid's email, to avoid snafu like on the first SFBayArea MBer @ the zoo ...

-rh-

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I'll definitely be there! But don't try to feed me cake...I'll be quiet. Promise. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Supermom said she might try to come. RH, you may need to get a bigger table!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Lulu, don't worry, you are great at holding our attention. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Won't need an MB sign. Just look for the international delegation of 'happy faces' <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

L.

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All,

Lets settle it then ...

10/18 11:00AM at Metreon.

RSVP to Orchid - MBorchid2@yahoo.com w/ your screen_name/cell#. You will get the exact place of the meeting.

Please get to "know" the group by reading their posts. Some of us in a very difficult situation and need a lot of support.

LULU, we won't feed you cake but you have to give us updates <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . You are a very good story teller ... any chances to make it as a movie script for lifetime ? ... It would be ironic since OM/OW dream to be a famous movie stars <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong>Please get to "know" the group by reading their posts. Some of us in a very difficult situation and need a lot of support.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Is this strictly for BS? My FWS expressed an interest in both of us going, but would not want to make anyone uncomfortable.

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KS41,

FWS ... are welcome if you want to rebuild M, after all this is MBer gathering. You know that Mr. K (he is confused who start calling him that <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ) is actually Orchid's FWH. He adds the dynamic by sharing his days in the fog and the reason he got out of it. He was uncomfortable at the idea of coming but he has been there twice and want to come along again <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . Yes bring your FWS on. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . I don't know about unmarried OP come alone ... I might have real 2x4 opsh 2x6 and send her/him to craiglist or TOW.

Are you in BayArea ? RSVP Orchid.

At this rate I might have to get a meeting hall ... LOL !.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong> You know that Mr. K (he is confused who start calling him that <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ) is actually Orchid's FWH. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">OK, it was me who started to call him Mr.K. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> When I called Orchid at home, he answered and I asked to speak with "Orchid" he laughed and knew I was one of the MBers..he said " I am the bad guy!" Instead of addressing him as "bad guy" Mr.K was born <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

RH, good job, a bigger crowd this time..
Orchid I will call you to RSVP, did you receive Blah's email? He canceled his old email address & cell. He probably emailed you with his new address,please check. Please say Aloha to Mr.K & Master J, OK. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Thanks - I've RSVP'd to Orchid (we are in the East Bay).

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:any chances to make it as a movie script for lifetime ? ... It would be ironic since OM/OW dream to be a famous movie stars <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, sure. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> I could turn this into a screenplay - and the WS's could play themselves. I just don't know who would play me? or the OW's H? I think DeNiro should play my dad. I'm just not sure if it would get the viewership that a made-for-tv movie like - The Amy Fisher Story did. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Of course, I would ask the catering service on the set to put ExLax in all the OW's lunches and snacks. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by *LULU*:
<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:any chances to make it as a movie script for lifetime ? ... It would be ironic since OM/OW dream to be a famous movie stars <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, sure. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> I could turn this into a screenplay - and the WS's could play themselves. I just don't know who would play me? or the OW's H? I think DeNiro should play my dad. I'm just not sure if it would get the viewership that a made-for-tv movie like - The Amy Fisher Story did. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Of course, I would ask the catering service on the set to put ExLax in all the OW's lunches and snacks. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">WS/OW - played by 'demselves'.
BS: Nicole K.
Dad: Robert DeN.

That's my vote. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Mmm. I don't know about Nicole Kidman. She seems like a homewrecker to me. It seems every married male co-star she works with ends up divorced.

How about Reese Witherspoon? She's a nice girl with manners and a husband and young children. Rick Yune could play OW's H...or maybe Chow Yun Fat. Oh gosh! If we could get Chow Yun Fat - I might just need to star as myself! LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Orchid,

Here I am, and if I am in town I will attend. Looking forward to meeting all of you.

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