i think im finally done. im too tired to keep trying anymore. its been a year since dday, and she dosent want anything to do with counceling. we have both been in IC but she insists this is something we need to work on individually.
i dont get it. isnt this a couples issue?? what am i missing?

she keeps talking about the future, but what kind of future is it when i keep wondering about where she is, what and who she visits on the internet, who she emails, on and on.

she wants things to go back to what they were before. the times she said i ignored her which led to her A.

im the one acting as if i had an affair. always trying to do the right things and not making any missteps. its so backwards from what i would have thot it would be in a situation like this.

i have started to spend more time with the kids and just by myself.

the thing that upsets me as much as anything is the fact that she just refuses to touch me in any way shape or form. im not talking about sex, just any physical contact.
she will purse her lips and let me give her a peck before i leave for work, but thats as much as shes willing to do.

im just terribly frustrated and fed up. seriously considering calling an atty. to start the big d.

Keith_03,

I'm going to reply to your other thread - more info there for folks to get a better insight and offer better suggestions.