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Hi All,

There are many MBer here will be visiting our city and we should not let this unique opportunity slip away.

I want to send email to W.Harley if he could join us in our dinner get together.

I need the head count very quickly for locals & visitors. Post how many are coming and how many you could take with you if we have to go a bit farther than a fews block from Sheraton or go to the city all together. How many plan to stay on Sunday ?. I might be able to play a tour guide and probably more might be able to.

Date : 5/1 around 5:30PM- whatever ... lol!
Place : let's be practical & vote

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Hi Redhat...My H and I are planning on going...but we cant make any plans yet until we talk to SH on Tuesday...I am not sure why tho...he has already given us clearance to go...anyway, if we do go we will be staying Sunday as well. soooo...that would make it 2 for dinner and 2 for staying on Sunday for a tour <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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I understand ... I think L&H also on the same boat as you do. Let me know as soon as possible ... since I am going to be a tour guide ... or I go to cheer T1 at the finish line on Sunday.

Looking forward to see you all.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong> Hi All,

There are many MBer here will be visiting our city and we should not let this unique opportunity slip away.

I want to send email to W.Harley if he could join us in our dinner get together.

I need the head count very quickly for locals & visitors. Post how many are coming and how many you could take with you if we have to go a bit farther than a fews block from Sheraton or go to the city all together. How many plan to stay on Sunday ?. I might be able to play a tour guide and probably more might be able to.

Date : 5/1 around 5:30PM- whatever ... lol!
Place : let's be practical & vote

-rh- </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Meet Steve? Wow, that w/b great! I know, that's a maybe. Oh well, one can dream. After all who has heard more fantasy talk and get paid for it than Steve and Jennifer? LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Count 2 from us. Orchid and H.

RH, you pick the place. That is more up your area. You know what we need. Good food and a place to talk. U know how fun we can be!!! LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Maybe 'ol 2L and Believer + other So Calers would stop on by, it's just a short 8 hour jaunt. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Mahalo,
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Orchid:
<strong>Meet Steve? Wow, that w/b great! I know, that's a maybe. Oh well, one can dream. After all who has heard more fantasy talk and get paid for it than Steve and Jennifer? LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No not Steve ... but Williard itself <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> . If he agrees I think we have to eat at either the hotel or Marriott across the street.

I assume you could take 3 peoples w/ you if we have to drive. I know Hungry Hunter is at the next exit after the Airport.

OK ... 3 definite, 4 unconfirm and 2 rumored <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

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^ BUMP ^ . Unless I get drunk in Vegas and sign a document .... I am not going to MB seminar I called the office and confirm that there is no benefit for me, a single not attached to any one or R, know about MB concept to go to the seminar. The coaching after the seminar is gear toward couple.

However I will organize the dinner if there is enough people interested.

-rh-

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Hi guys! We will be going to the seminar, but unfortunately will not be having dinner. If you ahve read Dad's posts or mine, cant remember he was hung up about going to the seminar. When we talked to SH today, found out his hangup was actually going to dinner with people whom now him anonymously and then ahving to meet them. So SH says to him...

"Well, that is a no brainer...dont go to dinner, just the seminar"...sorry!

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RH, it is a great idea. I would love to go. But I am not sure we can go to dinner. We need to meet with in laws. How dare we leave them alone?

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by momto3boys:
<strong> Hi guys! We will be going to the seminar, but unfortunately will not be having dinner. If you ahve read Dad's posts or mine, cant remember he was hung up about going to the seminar. When we talked to SH today, found out his hangup was actually going to dinner with people whom now him anonymously and then ahving to meet them. So SH says to him...

"Well, that is a no brainer...dont go to dinner, just the seminar"...sorry! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No problem m2- 3 boys,

The seminar is what can help your H. We are just an added benefit but that's ok. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Let your H know that we appreciate his progress. My H didn't want to meet anyone at first, now he is the chatterbox. LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> KS41's H is such a sweetheart and they look sooo cute together. I don't think your H would feel out of place but only time will tell. So don't make seeing us a priority. Main thing is to work on your recovery. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

If you both later decide you want to join up for dinner or even for Sunday brunch, let us know. You have my phone#s, right?

Glad to hear you are going. Real happy for the both of you. Please come back and share with the rest of us.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by lostnhurt:
<strong> RH, it is a great idea. I would love to go. But I am not sure we can go to dinner. We need to meet with in laws. How dare we leave them alone? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">L&H,

Glad to hear you are still going. Dinner or brunch w/b great. Let us know if you can. No pressure, we are just a pretty friendly bunch. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong>Unless I get drunk in Vegas and sign a document ...-rh- </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">So when is your trip to Vegas??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I might be available for dinner/tour guide services. SF is afterall my 'hood.

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Our R is deterating. But we will go. Please help me if any of you can.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by *LULU*:
<strong>So when is your trip to Vegas??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I might be available for dinner/tour guide services. SF is afterall my 'hood. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I just cancelled it is suppose to be 4/27. I let go great show tickets and special offer from Bellagio <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> . I guess someone above try to tell me that LV is not my city to visit for now.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Originally posted by lostnhurt:
<strong> Our R is deterating. But we will go. Please help me if any of you can. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well since you can't go for dinner, are you available for Sunday during the day ?. When would you arrive in the city & available ?. We might be able to look for Friday during the day to meet w/ you.

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We will arrive Frid 3pm, then go to in laws, drop the kids, maybe dinner together. Then we will leave Sunday about noon.

I don't have any control about what to do. that is how our M goes. I feel so down now. Really SAD.

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hurtnlost,

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> The Seminar starts at 7:00PM sharp on Friday. When are you going to dinner ? On Saturday the seminars end at 4:30PM. It is going to be tough one since you will be going home Sunday around noon.

We still have time to iron out the detail ... Marriot or Sheraton has a nice relaxing restaurant/bar to hang out 'till late.

I really think for both of you we should just hang out and meet w/ some BayAreaMBers ... Orchid (KS41 if she is willing to come) have salvaged their M and usually they come w/ their FWS.

City tour on Sunday won't be a good idea unless you could wake up early enough to check out the scenery of the city.

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RH, I do love to go to all the event you suggested. But I am lucky if we even go. I wish some of the FWS can talk to WH, expecailly Dadto3boys, he is a fresh one. Dad,can you help? I feel so desperate, and try grap everything, even a bubble.

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L&H,

Please e-mail me so you can have our phone #s. That way if your H has a last minute change of mind we can get together.

mborchid2@yahoo.com

My H is the Xws and he has spoken to some Ws from MB. Your H can talk to mine if he wants.

The important thing is to get to the seminar and benefit from the info. Our communication is secondary so don't sweat it, ok?

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Hi lostnhurt! unfortunately, we wont be meeting up with anyone while we are there either. dad really doesn't want to meet anyone he has poured his heart out to. I would LOVE for him to meet with some FWS, but that is his choice and I am not going to push him in the least. We are arriving around 2:15 Friday afternoon and leaving Monday morning.

lostnhurt...please email orchid and she can give you my email address...I dont want to post it on here cuz it is my real first name and last name...

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Thank you, I will e-mail ORchid right now.

My WH is still deep in fog. He refused to come in the board too. I am in the edge of Plan B now, probably right after MBW. Hes gone since last yesterday with no trace. How do I take this? I feel so bad.

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lostnhurt,

Talk to SH ... as I posted before I don't really think it is a good idea to bring him to MBWeekend while he still have full contact or A might still going on, just my 2¢ .

Give Orchid a call & hang in there.

-rh-

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