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#1139401 05/25/04 12:29 AM
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Who had affair?

#1139402 05/24/04 01:01 PM
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can you "see" who votes and how they voted?

just kind of curious myself what you will be "doing" w/the results. very interesting the votes so far on the other poll you started. how long will you keep the poll open?

<small>[ May 24, 2004, 01:03 PM: Message edited by: roughroad ]</small>

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Can't tell who voted which way or even if they voted, but you cannot view the results unless you did vote.

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Chris - a point of detail on when divorce was initiated. In some jurisdictions (like mine), divorce cannot be initiated when minor children are present until the spouses are separated for greater than one year. So, in these cases, questions about when divorce was initiated may result in misleading replies if the responder answers literally. For example, I answered that the female WS initiated the divorce greater than one year after d-day. However, the divorce process was initiated within about two months of d-day when the WS separated and initiated obtaining a legal separation.

#1139405 05/24/04 09:54 PM
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This is a difficult poll for those of us who are betrayed and betrayer. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

Edited 'cause I cannot spell. Whoopsie!

<small>[ May 24, 2004, 09:57 PM: Message edited by: Raskal ]</small>

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I am the WS, wife, but have recently learned that H has also had PA. Didn't know how to vote on that one. Also, divorce was initiated, but cancelled...working on M, no place to vote on that one.

Lastly, it looks like the majority of people using this board is betrayed wives. I am a wayward wife. Will I still find support here? New and Nervous.

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Hi Momof3bychoice,
I am a former wayward wife and prior to that, my husband betrayed me. I feel you will receive support here.
I mostly lurk (due to time constraints, etc.), but I learn a lot and want to continue to grow.

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Chris,

Great poll. This looks more like what I envisioned my poll to look like (but it isn't).
Thanks.

RH

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