</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Once the WS makes the decision to break contact, she will be looking for a safe landing zone. You must become that safe landing zone. You cannot judge her, even in your heart. LB's can be nonverbal as well as verbal. She will be watching you very closely during this time and you may not be aware of it. She needs to see you in a different light. When she rejects you, don't withdraw, but continue to reach out to her. She needs to see you fighting for her. This effort can take 6 months or more.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thanks, Roman, I needed to hear that this AM. I think H is maintaining NC ... for almost 2 months now, although I do have my doubts recently. It's good to be reminded about the safe landing zone when you're feeling like being the volcano erupting hot lava on WS!