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OK , I got orders ,,, Its the week end LABOR DAY WEEK END ,,,,,

I am demanding a MB HAVE FUN !!!!!!!

EVERYONE for the next 3 days must have FUN , take a breack from everything .....

NO I am not crazy ,,, theres just so much we can all take ,,, and yes you can find the energy to remeber to laugh , play a game go visit someone , roll around the floor with the kids SOMETHING !!!


IF in PLAN B well then it works , just what PLAN B ORDERED N/C and no thinking of you know them (WS)

PRETEND youe single I do not care if you fake it just do it ..

PLAN A wonderful be happy , upbeat ,,,, CRAZZZZYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COME ON whos in !!!! I want fun storys reported back here on TUESDAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FM snap out of it , JUST A HUSBAND take arks advice and run with it , SHELLY ,you go girl stick with it and have fun your holdin your graound ,,,,,BOB take a breack ....

ANY ONE else I forgot YOU GET THE PICTURE !!!!

ITs time for some YOU TIME !!!!!!!!YOU ARE ALOUD !!!
I SAID SO <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Be good have fun now GO !

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Great idea! Pretend like I am single? I like it.

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I'm in. I'm hanging with my best friend all weekend and we are going to go tear it up.

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Sure I can try that.

If I'm not at the firehouse all weekend, I'll be in my house with my WW and her sisters. The ones that never treated me decent when we were "happily" married. I am so looking forward to it.

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BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />


It's still light outside so I won't be too crazy just yet. *looks at watch Give me a few hours and we'll have this board leanin'.

No seriously 3isa is right, Enjoy your weekend! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ September 03, 2004, 04:31 PM: Message edited by: FamilyMatters ]</small>

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Tom Joad:
<strong> Sure I can try that.

If I'm not at the firehouse all weekend, I'll be in my house with my WW and her sisters. The ones that never treated me decent when we were "happily" married. I am so looking forward to it. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">there's been a Tom Joad sighting?

Tom?

Hey man please make sometime to have FUN!

Don't be like FM, dont be like FM
I repeat do not be like FM! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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3isacrowd- u gave me a good chuckle with your post. I like it! i have been doing that for weeks as well as I can and it helps a lot. Mostly good weekends so far.

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hey 3,
i'm up to a little fun .... i'll be cleaning and packing ... but i'll whistle while i work <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

and i think i'll try having an A ..... with my H

everybody have tonight!
everybody wang chang tonight!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Brown <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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See now thats what I'm talking about BROWNS got the Idea !!!!!!!

Have fun !

Beliver way to live remeber those single days <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Tom , try getting drunk thats what I do around mt SIL!!!!

Park,, RIP away !!!!!!!!!!!!!

JUKE, made you laugh <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

FM, what are we going to do with you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

YOU BET I AM RIGHT !!!

Got to get back to my FUN !!!

I am checking in on you guys and anyone who does not do what I say gets the 2x4's <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Maam!!! Yes, Maam!!!

Orders taked, Maam!!!

Will commit to mission as ordered, Maam!!!
(giggle, giggle)

I'll go get my "fun gear" on, equipped with bells and whistles, Maam!!!
(giggle. giggle)

Orders excuted!!!

Pvt Party Animal - reporting for duty

It is my main purpose to excute a "good time" to be had by all plan!!!

2x4's will only be 2 beers and 4 shots or vice versa ... I haven't decided yet (I don't know how the cleaning and packing will go after that! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

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3, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Hey, hope all is well.

So all of you have fun and relax this wonderful labor day!!!

As usual, I am WORKING!!!! Everyone is gone for a holiday and guess who is working? AAAAHHHH, the life of a head waitress. Not that it means much. LOL. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Anyway. Got my carpel tunnel back because I moved and worked H3lla hours, and oh, about 75 this week with staff probs and everyone else having all that fun!!!!

I used to think no rest for the wicked, then it was no rest for the weary, then, just no rest. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Love you all, especially you 3, and someday I will be a musician again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Love in Christ,
Miss M

ps. and if you all are going out to eat be nice to the waitstaff cause they are working hard on this LABOR DAY to make your holiday all that!!!!

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Iv got 3 men with their shirts off working on my roof, woooohooooo!!!

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3isacrowd, I love your idea. I just have one problem. I forget what fun is!

Oh, I used to get drunk all the time when around SILs. Now we are very close. Go figure! Anyway, I need suggestions on fun. Can't roll around with the kids. They are teenagers and the 15 yr. old one doesn't like me too much these days either. Yesterday I devastated him by actually having the audacity to go outside and meet the mom of the girl he's been talking on the phone with constantly. When I told him my plan to introduce myself when she picked him up he freaked out. Finally he agreed because he had no choice. He actually covered his face when I said "Hi". Wow, I never knew I was such an embarrassment!

OK, fun suggestions please! CV

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OH no people I will not fall to page 2 at least not until this week end is over LOL

Miss M ,,, OH women what am I going to do with you always working working ,,,,YOU make me tired LOL
Ya know I love ya girl ,,, I will still say try and make fun with it ,,, Meet that customer that just well is so sweet or from out of state they will give ya a laugh ....

A/C ,,, all I got to say to you is ROOF ROOF ROOF LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

CV,, that boy of your may be to old to roll on floor with but you can take a hose out and start a water fight !!!
Now I know that spunk and humor of yours so don't let me down when I say IMAGINATION the key to FUN !

OK yesterday woke up to coffee on table and paper laid out (H) then woke me up with kisses ,,,,
Then well beakfast in BED <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

BBQ lots of beers and laughs kids swimming and it was <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> just what I ordered and oh fri, CLEVELAND won there pre=season game <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

OK I made breakfast today now looking for the BED part <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Hey, I'm having a good weekend too.

Not the kind I would have had in the past but it is good because I am at peace, no regrets, no choas, no tears.

I'm spending the weekend alone, at home with God. To me that means -

Finally cleaning the house <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
No partying
Only good happy thoughts
Reading
Praying
Taking Gimble's advice and visualizing myself and my life as it will be (someday soon)

Thank you Three for this thread!

And thank you God for you! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Since friday evening I've taken the kids to an adventure playground with our best friends and their kids, been Horseriding, been to a cool interactive museum that they adored, booked the kids fave babysitter to play with 'em saturday night so I could get a breather, then Today we went on a hike with a picnic and our Dog till 2-ish then swimming at a water park till we just got home.

All while my WW was at karate events. Apart from the kids crying over their missing Mom, we had a brilliant, but tiring weekend.

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Way to go BOB its about YOU and the KIDS ,,, FUN was the theme and you went for it !!!!

I am proud you !!!!!!

And I like the babysitter thing for a brake for YOU ,,, thats the ticket !!!!!!


I am off to the yard for some B-all and skip it with D , S and H ..

I must win and show off my athletic ablity !!!

Then I will pass out tonight when no one is looking <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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I have to tell you 3IAC, if life without WW in plan B or the future is like this WE, it won't be unberable.I never dreamed I would ever say that eight weeks ago !

Rather have my baby back though. WOuld've been so much MORE fun with her, loving us and infecting us with her abandoned laugh. * sigh * I do miss that.

AH well. Not a bad weekend ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Bob Pure:
<strong> I have to tell you 3IAC, if life without WW in plan B or the future is like this WE, it won't be unberable.I never dreamed I would ever say that eight weeks ago !

Rather have my baby back though. WOuld've been so much MORE fun with her, loving us and infecting us with her abandoned laugh. * sigh * I do miss that.

AH well. Not a bad weekend ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey, Bob - it's gonna be okay, Right? 3 sorry about the threadjack .... but I never write to Bob .... Forgive me??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Any way, good for *BOB* "your future's so bright you gotta wear shades" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

(always praying for you!)

Thanks 3 again for this thread - it is a great reminder to all of that there is life after an A - and we should be living it!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

(That is what you meant ... wasn't it???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> )

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Having a great weekend so far. I've been lounging around the house, staying up all night and sleeping during the day.

Had another party last night with the neighbors. It was fun. I'm getting back into the party mode.

Went up to the store today to get some birdseed for the wild birds. Ran into my stepdaughter, and grandson. I have been completely cut off from WH's family. My step daughter showed me a butterfly tatoo she just got. My grandson (3) said hi grandma. I told him that grandma loves him very much, and left the store.

Before this would have made me very sad. But now I figure it is their loss. I am moving on.

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