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It's very rare for the electric company to go so far as to cut off the power. If you can't pay the bill in full either call the electric company or visit their site and file for an extension. You can make small, incremental payments to the bill which will keep your power on. They're generally very understandign about situations like this and realize that it can be dangerous to cut the power off and will do whatever they can to help you keep things running.
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Yea...I did call and they will take small payments. My STBX is just trying to scare me with all of this crap. I just can't believe that he would threaten that just so that he can get our son. I don't think a judge would find that he is being a good father when he does that kind of stuff. He's only hurting himself by sending me letters like that. I save all of them...and will be giving a copy to my lawyer.
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It's mindblowing, isn't it? The things some WS will do to get what they want and justify their strange and (in your case) cruel behavior. I know, my exh was pretty cutthroat when he got in too deep. Just keep as cool a head as you can and keep in mind that he's flailing about right now like a wounded animal.
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The good thing is he is being a stupid a$$ and putting these things in writing. What in the world could he be thinking? Instead of scaring you, he is giving you powerful ammunition for when you go in front of the judge!
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I agree....I think he wants me to respond to his letters. I haven't!!!! He's just like his mom....if you don't respond it drives them crazy! I copy and save all his his emails and letters. I will use them! His family is like the mafia.....serioulsy....they will fight until they get their way. His mom will lie for him if she has to. It's so sad that my STBX has resorted to this. I thought he was a better person than his family memebers. I guess I'm really seeing his true colors.
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my goodness tree, but WTF happened while i've been gone?i swear, you make me want to call your jerk of a wh and tell him what a worthless excuse for a piece of crap he is. that is really depraved of him to punish his wonderful wife by threatening her with all kinds of B.S.,and for what? cause he wants to act like a halfwit.{{{{Tree}}}} my heart really goes out to you and your boy. but its time to get very tough.the best defense is a good offense, so get with that attorney ASAP! make him and his tramp sorry that they EVER messed with tree! (feel a little better at least? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) i hope everything works out for you tree,ill be checking in on your updates take care.
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