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#1218559 11/12/04 02:38 PM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Justess, what did I say?? I even forgot, but I'm sure it didn't require an edit.

For the love of everything chocolate, you are edit happy </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Edit happy? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Farrr from it. I'm "TRYING" to keep your thread alive despite numerous complaints about "language" and the length of a thread that has no MB concepts or support. So many complaints that I've tried to edit BEFORE the emails. Evading the language filter by adding ** or $#@ does not make the words acceptable as we all know the intention.

Is this the only thread with complaints? No,,and I try catch as many of those as I can also. But with hundreds of posts a day, I can't possibly do all of them.

I have defended this thread (and the other one) as an escape from the tension we all experience while on this rollercoaster. And I occasionally <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> DO see MB concepts being used.

I am not trying, in any manner, to hassle anyone here or pick on any particular poster or thread. If you want this thread to stay alive, please help by monitoring yourselves.

And instead of complaining about edits or your moderators on a thread in an open forum, please email with any questions or comments. I'm more than happy to respond via email....

Now back to "Idiotville" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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I dunno about the others, Justuss, but I knew already....

I was just joshin' ya. Sorry if we offended. We do appreciate you, you know????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

We also TOTALLY appreciate being allowed to be silly on this thread. Thank you for defending us.


(I've now a pic of Justuss in my head on a white horse decked out in sterling armor)

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Okay - This is the warden speaking. Everyone needs to straighten up and fly right - or this thread might be gone. Right now, this is the only thread here that is not stressful (expect to Justuss <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

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Justuss, point taken about the language.

The complaints, however, I have never understood.

If the people complaining about us actually read between the lines and past all the silliness, all they will see is a group of people supporting each other and just plain old friendship.

This thread (and the other one) has brought most of us on it through some pretty dark moments in our lives and marriages.

Jen

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Oh my gosh Believer, I was wondering where the heck our warden was!

Why would anyone complain about this thread? Does it take up to much computer bytes or somthing? I don't get it.

I see a lot of other silly threads going on all the time. Oh well, no more swearing. Done!

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Thanks Justess, I will clean my end up. Wouldn't have been easier to just say that, instead of constantly editing us? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I'm "TRYING" to keep your thread alive despite numerous complaints about "language" and the length of a thread that has no MB concepts or support . </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I think all of us would argue this part. We are of great support to each other. Just not in the conventional serious way that others are, doesn't make are support for each other any less.

We are all very connected and very much working on our M, just so happens we keep it all on one thread.

I will defend our Idiotville to the death of me!!!!

Also, you lurkers who get offended, STOP LURKING!!!! When I see a thread that offends me, I stay away, and I'm an Idiot!!!

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WOW! Looks like I popped in just in time - or in this case in "Justuss time"...

Thanks for the clarification sir, or ma'am - I still don't know which, anyway - thanks for the heads up - sounds (reads) like you at least SOMEwhat like what's going on here...hate that you have to defend us, but, well, I'll say it...

YES!!!!! Please keep our little thread alive - yes, most days we're more than silly, and we sound like idiots (thus the name <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ), but the truth is, this IS a refuge for many of us...we either get trashed or ignored on other threads...and, well, there are so many other threads that push the hurt we're all going through/have gone through...our "little" group has grown to a not-so-little group, and the truth about that is we'd love for it to continue growing. We've yet to turn anybody down who wants to join in our discussions. And the topics are so varied - from MB concepts (oh the many times we've encouraged each other to PLAN A!!!! their little selves to the death) to the Bible, to what each other are wearing to the office that day...but, well, I like to think of us as the little "Island of Misfits" - you know, like the Christmas special, with the elf that wants to be a dentist - so he ends up at the Island of the mis-fit toys, the ones that were discarded because they didn’t look and act just so….ugh!!! I digress…

There have been other threads that started the same...but after a few days, the posters either got bored, or well, I don’t know. I'm sorry their threads didn't make it...but I hope that won't cause us to be banned, because, although several of us are in Recovery, there are many more who visit this thread who are not...you can only soak up so much pain before it starts affecting you in a strange way.

And, I’m sure anybody in recovery will tell you it’s an ongoing thing – I’m 3yrs out from H’s EA/PA, yet, just when we thought it was over, he confessed to more – threw us right (almost) back to the start…uh well, nevermind...

Anyway, thanks for trying to keep us straight! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />


Oh, and, if you can, can you post one more time and tell us if you're M/F, and - are you NOT allowed to post with us? Does that break some unseen line? OK, just thought I'd ask! - Maybe I'll email ya! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

PS - Alrighty you (US) Idiotvillianies - BE NICE!!!! Justuss already has his/her work cut out for him/her, let's give him/her a rest....
(see how confusing that is???!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

edited to add <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

<small>[ November 12, 2004, 02:07 PM: Message edited by: YL ]</small>

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That was cute YL? The Christmas story of misfits.

I think Justuss is a man, because that's a boy name. Yup, that's what I think.

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Weaver, yah, maybe, but, look at the use of the graemlins - not many guys use that many in one post...so, well...inquiring minds want to know...

Can you tell us, PPPPLLLLEEEEAAAASSSSEEEE??????

OK, I'm done - I don't beg well, and well, if you don't want to, or can't then, far be it from me to get YOU into trouble, 'specially if you're keeping us outta trouble....

OK Idiotville, carry on!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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See? I'd pictured Justuss as female in a very Joan of Arc-ish type of way....

With the double entendre of "just us" & justice, I assumed female...because the words "just us" are ones we girls refer to ourselves as ("just us girls") and "justice" because tho I'm certain many of our male friends would love to see justice, it's....I dunno....a word I see women using more....

Maybe Justuss will enlighten us...or maybe he or she will let us Idiotians conjecture ourselves sillier than we already are....

- Kimmy

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From now on let's refer to Justuss as Pat, you know Pat, from Saturday Night Live, Man, or woman??? J/K

He writes like a woman, yet the name is more manly to me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

I'm so stinking confused.

Sugar!!!! (yeah, that just don't cut it) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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KY - I started saying "For the love of Pete" after seeing Shrek...then, I met you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ...now I say "For the love of CHOCOLATE"

As for NG's sugar - I've said that one for MANY years - there's no mistakin it for a bad word, and "shoot" is usually followed by "bang" - "sugar" just stops people and makes 'em laugh...and, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but well, who am I to say??

OK, I keep getting logged-out - is somebody trying to tell me something???

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Justuss is a female, no doubt about it. I can tell by the tone in her voice.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KiwiJ:
<strong> Justuss, point taken about the language.

The complaints, however, I have never understood.

If the people complaining about us actually read between the lines and past all the silliness, all they will see is a group of people supporting each other and just plain old friendship.

This thread (and the other one) has brought most of us on it through some pretty dark moments in our lives and marriages.

Jen </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Very well put Jen!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thought it deserved another look!!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by kyellow4:
<strong> Also, you lurkers who get offended, STOP LURKING!!!! When I see a thread that offends me, I stay away, and I'm an Idiot!!! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ditto!!

Stop being poltroons already!

Crying and running to tell on us....

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My 7YO son just came downstairs from bed with his underpants full of jellybabies.

I asked " whay are your underpants full of jellybabies?".

He replied "I don't like them too cold".

He went off , singing and marching wih a quarter pound of jellybabies in his gusset.

I must remind myself not to eat his jellybabies tomorrow.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Hey Bob!

You missed all the fun...

Maybe we should just play elevator music in Idiotville!

Surely nobody could complain about that!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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More music !! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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This is more like it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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LOL !!! @robby ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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