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Have a great trip Bob!!! Enjoy yourselves - Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas!
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Hi YL. Love to you. Enjoy Bob, will be dying to hear from you. RH, NO I'm not saying that. As if!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Robby I tried to reply, but it booted me off Yahoo. I'll try again later. ST is home and wanting my help. bye for now.
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Did you get that garage floor painted? Then, go be helpful.
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Well, I have been trying since 7 am to say good morning and now it is almost noon! My DSL wouldn't work at home and what happens when I get to work? Well..one they expect me to WORK! But now I am exhausted and need a vacation from reading all these pages. My goodness Idiots, get a job! Of course now that I can post, the town is deserted. Heeellloooooo heeelllloooo is there an echo in heeerrrree??? Hey, just wanted to say been long time no SF for me too. Glad I am not alone. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Good morning and afternoon idiots. Bob, Merry Christmas to you and your family. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Hi FF! The l8r was just a goodbye to that girl who wasn't really here (KY).
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> 4. ST stepped out of his truck yesterday with a tray full of truffles (for work, at work) he stepped on ice, and fell right on his butt, and elbow. He only lost a couple of truffles</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh my garsh, poor guy. That reminds me of an idiotic thing I did when I was much younger. I was working at McDonalds and the soft serve sundae machine was empty. So I took the tub in the back to refill it with the liquid that makes the ice cream. Well, normally you take the stuff and fill in at the machine but I thought I would save time and fill the tub right in the walk in refrigerator. So I take a step with this very heavy, full tub and yup slipped. The tub of sticky liquid ice cream dummped all over me! My manager decided it would be funny if I worked the rest of the day like that, so he wouldn't let me change I worked the lunch rush in a hot grill with stick gooey dried up ice cream all over me! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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Reading all this stuff on the boards lately about character flaws and my recent confession to being a FWS, has caused me to re-examine nearly every relationship I have ever had. Jelly, I think you hit on the head for me when you said you have matured. That is exactly where I feel I finally am. I think in my 30's I was extremely immature when it came to relationships. I never had good life examples and really did not do much self examination. So, my question is do the character flaws go away when you realize what they are, own up to them and stop doing those things?
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Hey RH, how are you today? Glad to know the town is not deserted. I am filling in for a department that answers the public lines here so i get to sit at my desk and pretend I am working. I also get to do my I'ville job and answer questions about things I know nothing about! Wow, talk about reality and cyber worlds colliding!
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FF, Thanks for asking. Better than yesterday. you said: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> So, my question is do the character flaws go away when you realize what they are, own up to them and stop doing those things? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I don't think the character flaw 'goes away,' but by being aware of it, it is easier to keep under control. I think that is why some people are able to not have A's, because they are aware of that vulnerability.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I don't think the character flaw 'goes away,' but by being aware of it, it is easier to keep under control. I think that is why some people are able to not have A's, because they are aware of that vulnerability </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok, that makes sense. Our MC asked me last week if I thought I would ever have another A. I told her flat out NO! Why? Because I never stop reminding myself how much damage I did to myself, to my M and children. Not only that I am now aware of the difference between liking a trait or characteristic about another person and being committed to a real relationship. Does that make sense? Whenever I find myself being amused or think another man has a cute quirk, I remind myself that that is all it is. I remind myself on a regular basis what I love about my H, even though it is hard to do some days. So I guess this is part of owning up to my own flaws and dealing with them in a more mature fashion?
Am I just babbling?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Does that make sense? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">To me, Yes </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> o I guess this is part of owning up to my own flaws and dealing with them in a more mature fashion? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That is definitely a more mature way of dealing with it. (Good job, keep it up.) </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Am I just babbling? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I wouldn't use the word babbling, but you can and did. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Anyway, have a great day, I'm leaving work now.
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OK...haveta go to he11, but two things.... </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ST is home and wanting my help.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ST: you da man!!!! Please tell me your trick!!! FF-How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood? Have a good nite everyone! (edited to correct my speloing as apparently RH has chnaged occupations in i-ville to substitute grammar teacher! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <small>[ December 15, 2004, 02:32 PM: Message edited by: LINY ]</small>
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Good night Henny err Liny! Need some more jokes later, 'kay?
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faith, you did not just encourage Liny to joke did you? DID YOU!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
RH, the floor is painted, but he did that. I did the walls. it looks awesome out there. I tell you more in a bit.
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sorry Jelly, but I am desperate for a laugh! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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No word from AW lately? Hope that is a good sign. RIF, you home yet? Hope you are enjoying the time off. And Liny is FUNNY! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> had to get that in while Robby is sleeping on the job. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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I got some Bambi jerky..."
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FF- Please edit your last post NOW!!!I miss Liny's jokes like a miss a cold sore!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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That's what we're getting my H for Xmas!
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Dobie - Do you think he will want a cold sore for Christmas?
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