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#1221559 12/21/04 09:57 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Layer the ingredients in order - the Bailey's must be on top.

Lucky Bailey's!!

</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LMAO! Robby you are in rare form! But please don't remind me of my lack of of um ahem. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

#1221560 12/21/04 10:03 AM
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Uh-oh!!

FF thinks I'm funny...

Is that bad?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

#1221561 12/21/04 10:05 AM
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Is that bad?

Only if you find it encouraging .

#1221562 12/21/04 10:09 AM
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You idiots have been way too busy for me to keep up. Robby can you explain your obsession about nipples? Uh then again maybe Justuss will appreciate it if you don't. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

RH--good luck with your appointment today.

Steve--sorry you are having a bad time. I understand taking the tree down, I guess ignoring the holiday may be easier. Have you thought about doing some good works during this week? Visiting some shut ins or kids in the hospital? Helping sort toys for the give aways or working at the food bank? Just something to focus on others? I know for me the best way to take my mind off of myself is to remember there is always some that is worse off than me. (I am not by any means discounting your pain) {{{Steve}}} I wish you could come have Christmas with us. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Morning to the rest of Iville. Jelly tell Kimmy happy birthday from me too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Had MC last night. Boy did we have a mutual duh moment at the end. Great way to end our session since our MC is on vacation next week. We have homework to do. Funny cuz it started out being pretty petty and angry, she (our MC) really gets us to see what idiots we are.

love y'll. {{idiotville}}

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Yes, mayor I AM encouraging you! I need a laugh and Liny has be so not funny lately. (sorry Liny)

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by faithful follower:
<strong> Funny cuz it started out being pretty petty and angry, she (our MC) really gets us to see what idiots we are.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You mean being here didn't do the trick? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1221565 12/21/04 10:13 AM
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faith, welcome back from the Darkside.

Liny is so not funny. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> You mean being here didn't do the trick? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">well it did for me...but my H still doesn't get it. He thinks I am the idiot! (guess that why I am here)

#1221567 12/21/04 10:25 AM
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Yum, bacon, my favourite and someone doing something for me. WOW! THanks all. THat is what I miss the most someone taking care of me for a change. Oh and the hugs and kisses. Okay won't go there. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

I will bring my capucinno and my Tippy Golden Earl Grey tea.

Morning Dobie, LINY Robby FF: How is everyone? Still fighting the fight? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I need the comic relief. Have to make those dread exposure calls before I go to work this morning. Talk about butterflies!

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Best of luck on those calls! Drink some nice hot tea to try to keep yourself calm!

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f-again, are you calling today?

Try to be matter of fact. Just give it to them straight. I would tell them this is part of your plan, Exposure, and what you hope to get out of it, so they aren't seeing it as just a vindictive move on your part.

Be as honorable as you can.

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Jelly. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Try to be matter of fact. Just give it to them straight. I would tell them this is part of your plan, Exposure, and what you hope to get out of it, so they aren't seeing it as just a vindictive move on your part.

Be as honorable as you can. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am calling the family of OW. And I am calling the chaplain for the ship and sharing both her name and her phone number. Apparently the chaplain has been trying to reach WH. ANd since WH informed me last night that the OW is taking him to the ferry to come over here for Christmas, the chaplain can speak to him and her at the same time.

I am not clear as to what you mean about tell them this is part of my plan. Tell who? OWs family, the chaplain? Both? What? That I plan to contnue to expose? Should I tell OWs family that there can be percussions to her career including loss of it?

Jelly sent you a pic of DD12.

#1221571 12/21/04 10:49 AM
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Tell who ever you are exposing to. So they know, it isn't just some jealous wife on a mission of destruction to OW.

Let them know. I'm calling to expose this A, because it is part of my plan to recover my M. The sooner significant people in our lives know, the quicker this A will come to an end and I can start rebuilding my M.

I'm not trying to trash this woman, just trying to remove her from my H.

blah blah blah

#1221572 12/21/04 10:52 AM
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Darn, hit that add post before I said that I emailed both WHs mother and S with OWs name, where she lives and that he has been living there part time.

MIL emailed back that she will NEVER support his involvement with another woman. Especially one with children. DD is her only granddaughter and they are very close. She had made the mistake of telling WH that she would support any decision that he made. She meant whether to stay married or not. He took it to mean that it was okay to commit adultery and they would welcome OW. UH DUH.

Last time WH was here he had said they supported him and was oh so smug about it and that they had warned him "to watch his back as I was out to ruin him". So, I sent an email to clear things up between us. I just recently have manged to get to a very good place with my MIL. We had 8 years of avoidance as she kept mistaking me for WHs previous female who took him to the cleaners and got pregos to make sure he paid and paid.All the while abusing and neglecting the kids. 3 of them by different fathers. All of them not living with her.

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No opinions, just facts. Good luck to you, not a fun phone call.

I met with OM's wife to apologize to her, I thought I was going to die. We were friends before, during, but sadly not after, of course.

I couldn't go on about my life without giving her a proper apology. She was very gracious and loving, she has forgiven me. I miss my friend, especially this time of year. We did everything together. I'm definitely feeling the consequences these days. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

#1221574 12/21/04 11:59 AM
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I'm not taking a nap today and you guys all know it, huh, that is why you are not posting. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I sure am feeling sorry for myself today. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

#1221575 12/21/04 12:20 PM
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I here Jelly. Why no nap today? I would jump at the opportunity. I am so tired today. Just can't drum up any enthusiasm for the Christmas. I usually love this day more than anything and it is DD's birthday. What is wrong with me? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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Jelly, I am making my triumphant return to I'ville.

Hi!

GC

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GC! Welcome back to being an idiot! I know you had some q's on your thread about FWW's. Not sure if my sitch would help you much, but would be glad to try if you want. Pull up to the bar and have a drink on Robby. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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No, nap because I'm too busy, and I have daycare kids today, I can't nap when I have kids other than my own. ST is also on his way home.

GC, welcome back. I got you a Christmas present, did you see it, back a few pages. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Merry Christmas to you.

{{{{Faith}}}} I hope your holidays look up.

{{{{GC}}}} Welcome back

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