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#1222079 12/28/04 11:50 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Dealan-de:
<strong> It was a typical male on male reference....geez! You know, the things you guys say and do with each other to gross the wives out?!?
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LMAO Kimmy!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Do all guys really do that?

Somehow thought I was unique!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> It was a typical male on male reference....geez! You know, the things you guys say and do with each other to gross the wives out?!? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey look I would love to gross out the wives as much as the next man - <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> - but I have no idea what's this is all about. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

I'm very confused <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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My W just called me. For the second time in 2 weeks she has screwed up her finances and wants me to fix it! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Not only that, she took the opportunity to bash me about my job sit and blame all of her problems on me!! Again!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

My IC told me I need to stop helping her. I'm allowing her to have the best of both worlds... the benefits of Robby without a committment to the M.

So she bashes and bashes and then has the balls to ask me what I'm going to do about it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I said "Nothing, do it yourself." so she transferred money out of our joint account AFTER informing me it was her money anyway.

It's not. I borrowed $200 from a good friend of mine in Ohio.

She's a user, plain and simple!!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LMAO Kimmy!!

Do all guys really do that?

Somehow thought I was unique!!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You are unique Robby - just not in that sense.

Poor Aussie. A man's man and he doesn't even know it. Tell me, luv, you've never made sexual innuendos to a buddy to gross out your wife? No? Liar. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Since I'm at work, would you drink a beer for me? I need one today.

Sorry Robby. I'm tired of my user, too. They hoover big time.

- Kimmy

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Robby

sounds like you need to open a new non joint account mate.

Sorry to hear about the way you are asked for help.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey look I would love to gross out the wives as much as the next man - - but I have no idea what's this is all about. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

I'm very confused</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">WOW--Someone slower than me today! (sorry A2--you have an excuse, though--it's late for you!)


Robby--time for some MB talk. What is your plan? Yes, you are enabling her (and I know you have robby jr to think about to, but...)
Why do you two still have joint accounts? (I honestly thought it was "past" that point?)

Your whole sit--from your WW's POV, is really warped (and certainly correct me if I'm wrong): One of her biggest EN's is the whole money/job sit, right? So, she's "taking care of" the finances, but f@#$'s em up. Then she asks you for money. What am I missing here? Is this still fog talking?
{Idiot interuption} I just had three cigarettes burning at the same time, without realizing it. What an Idiot!
Now, if it is fog...(follow me), I have a lot of hope for you still. Because it is fog--and can be dissepated (sp). It's really not your wife doing this--she has been "abducted" as WAT says.

{WARNING: heart-to-heart proceeding!:}
Robby, use this site to your benefit and the good people who have been there, done that. I-ville is absolutely wonderful. Don't get me wrong. But you need a plan of action--for your own sanity and to protect that little one of yours. Why not ask this on a thread?

Regardless, ya got us. And I hate to see any Idiot hurting.

{robby}
Manly hug, of course. No train involved! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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Anyway, we all can answer you on your thread, right? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Robby,

Hang fast, buddy. She's mad as heck at you for not enabling her. I think that's a good thing. A dose of reality is just what she needs.

Dobie

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Hey Y'all!!

Robby - sorry it's going this way - I know Plan B is hard with Baby Bear involved, but, have you given it thought yet? I agree with your MC/IC - you are enabling, and she hasn't gotten the full concept of what she "wants" yet. OK, nuf 2x4'n - has your MWLP gotten any hits yet? too cute!

Starz - in case you get to pop back in - Hope it's a great Holiday for you and you get all you've dreamed of!

NG - Great to see you back - congrats on the snow thing - still waiting for it to reach here, praying it doesn't, all the same! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> After 3 hurricanes, the citrus has taken a hard hit already, I'm afraid snow would more than cripple it!

A2 - cute jokes! Oh, and I've heard that there is some of that white stuff here in the US, but I've not seen it either - not up close anyway! - I'm parallel to that oil rig in the Gulf that Kimmy's gonna move to! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

AW - Oh the foods you must be craving!! Only thing I couldn't eat when preggers was seafood - everything else was fair game! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

FAA, FF, Liny, Brown, RH, NOW, KiwiJ, KY, ST, HEEEY!!!

And, To the rest of Idiotville - hope you all had a great Christmas, and are on the way to a Happy New Year!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Tell me, luv, you've never made sexual innuendos to a buddy to gross out your wife? No? Liar. Since I'm at work, would you drink a beer for me? I need one today. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Kimmy would I EVER do something like that ?? Only when totally off my face heh heh heh <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Happy to have a beer this fine morning for you, or two for that matter ...maybe three <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

OK WAKE UP you sloths

Liny type joke time...

An old couple were sitting on the porch one afternoon rocking in their rocking chairs. All the sudden the old man reaches over and slaps his wife.

She says, "Well what was that for?"

He says, "Thats for 30 years of rotten sex!"

She doesn’t reply and they start rocking again.

All the sudden the old lady reaches up and slaps her husband twice.

He says, "Well what was that for?"

She says, "That’s for knowing the difference!"


heh heh heh <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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LOL!

OK...Mark me down for another 3 notches in the TKC!

May go in early tonight too....have the mgrs dinner tonight...if my asst mgr comes in, will leave early too--so I get to see my brown! (We are both in withdrawal after last night of me working and after being home for 1.5 weeks!)

Have a good day everyone! (Nite to you A2.)

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by LINY:
<strong> Your whole sit--from your WW's POV, is really warped (and certainly correct me if I'm wrong): One of her biggest EN's is the whole money/job sit, right? So, she's "taking care of" the finances, but f@#$'s em up. Then she asks you for money. What am I missing here? Is this still fog talking?

...you need a plan of action--for your own sanity and to protect that little one of yours. Why not ask this on a thread?
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Liny, you smoking fool... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

For what has to be at least the 3rd time...

W is not WW...

You are correct, sir. Financial Security seems to be my W's biggest EN. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I have a plan. I'm refining my plan. Working with IC, etc. Rome wasn't built in a day...

My sanity? Hogwash!! Lost it YEARS ago!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Start a thread?

Why would I start a thread when it takes a villiage? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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A2--very funny jokes, thank AW for me. A2 you still walking around on that leg? Is the beer your painkiller? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Ok Liny you are on a comeback. More jokes please!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Never argue with a fool - they will drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That is a keeper!

Kimmy, snow? wow, we had mid 70's on Christmas. My DD was outside riding her new electric scooter. Now of course we are in torrential rain.

Hey YL!

Robby, I agree with Liny. Use the MB resources and start your own thread. There are some great resources out there even though some slime can ruin it at times.

Liny, yes I know I shouldn't let him scare me off but he was really rude on a couple of posts. You really wrote some good stuff to him though. Hopefully someone will learn from all of this nonsense.

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Hey I got em, so I'm smokin 'em!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">For what has to be at least the 3rd time...

W is not WW...</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I can't edit, therefore I could not correct my double punch of the "W." Foolowing the bi-laws, sir! (I'd have to sue myself, and that wouldn't be a pretty site!)

And, for the record, it was only once you had to correct me! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by faithful follower:
<strong> Ok Liny you are on a comeback. More jokes please! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I give up!

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No disrespect meant Mayor sir. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by faithful follower:
<strong>Robby, I agree with Liny. Use the MB resources and start your own thread. There are some great resources out there even though some slime can ruin it at times.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'll stick with my IC, my supportive friends and Idiotville, thank you.

You guys are all pre-screened and slime-free!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'll stick with my IC, my supportive friends and Idiotville, thank you.

You guys are all pre-screened and slime-free!!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yeah. And our 2x4s are wrapped with nerf. Thwack! I'm ascared of dem other folks out there. A lot of them don't give a whit who they hurt.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Dealan-de:
<strong> Yeah. And our 2x4s are wrapped with nerf. Thwack! I'm ascared of dem other folks out there. A lot of them don't give a whit who they hurt. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well said!!

Whack!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Besides, most of us here have had our shots.

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