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#1222719 01/02/05 09:15 PM
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Why you are trashed and why you are using bad language. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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They don't call me tight ***** and tight lipped around here for nothing. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Robby, wassup??????

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<small>[ January 03, 2005, 06:47 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

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Come on Robby you are acting out of character (is that possible?) for the mayor of Idiotville! What's going on wid u?? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Hey everyone. Had a long day at church today. Then I came home and napped! Wow, haven't done that for a loooong time.

I see you all have been keeping Justuss busy reading here. Is that to distract from the rest of the board?

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Oh and thanks RH. I am sure, being an idiot, that I got the addy wrong. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Good Evening I'ville. Okay I just posted my new Plan A. I just kill myself! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I am stitting here in I'ville snickering my face off. THank God I am alone.

I will now just sit back quietly and wait for reactions from WH. ROTFLMAO. OMG he will have a fit. HA HA HA.

Robby, I am so funny, I suggest you abdicate right now! Just kidding. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1222724 01/02/05 09:46 PM
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Where is your thread F-Again??? Is it the same as before? I'll have to go look.

Robby, you get your butt back here this minute!!!

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Hey, Kiwi. I did an update to the New Year's Eve one. But this one is To Orchid, LMAO. I am still laughing. I guess I must be sick and twisted. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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F-Again, you need to do whatever it takes to get him to see sense. I mean that. There is NOTHING like a foggy WS. They (me, when I was one) are on a different planet and working to different rules from everyone else.

I know you're angry and I don't blame you for that for one second but I've seen it here a hundred times. If the anger is too much to get over the chances of recovery are very slim.

Having said that, I'd be bloody angry too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

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Hey, Kiwi. I am not angry any more. Honest. I cannot change either what I did or he did. I am actually quite at peace. I have few regrets about any of my actions. I learned a long time ago that you just cannot beat ourself up over your mistakes. You can learn form them and try not to do the make mistake over and over.

I was actually talking about my Plan A with Reverse Babble with Action. I think it is going to freak WH out. ANd that is a good thing. He is a classic c/a couple with MLC and fog. So for his family and friends to be in the same boat as him presents quite the image, doesn't it?

THat's what I am talking about. DId you read the right thread?

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F-Again, I read the right one. I think what you are doing is awesome.

As I've said to Starz, who is really going through very much what you are going through except IB is still at home, I feel just GHASTLY that I was on the other side of this.

Although, I am redeemed. My H (Rob) loves me and we are stronger than ever.

Never give up hope, F-Again, you probably don't know my whole story but I was what most people would call irredeemable.

Jen

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Robby, I mean it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

You get back here and you tell us what is up with you!!!

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Good evening I'Ville! How's everyone doing?

#1222731 01/02/05 11:22 PM
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RIF, Robby's trashed and won't come back on. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Apart from that, just fine and dandy thanks. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Seriously, I am, don't know about everyone else.

Jen

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yoo hoo... Mr. Mayor? Are you out there?

Glad things are going well for you Jen... looks like the night shift is going to be a little thin this evening...

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Thanks Kiwi. I can forgive the infidelity, I think. I don't judge you as you are repentant and working to fix things with your H. I admire that.

I WANT to forgive WH. BUt, don't know if I ever can. I want my pound of flesh so to speak. I NEED him to crawl. I have few illusions left about his character or rather the lack of it. I have judged him as a H and a F and found him sorely lacking. It might not be my place to do that but hey, I am being honest here. Erinyes is my new nickname. That is the name of the 3 Furies. I posted the reference on Dec 31st on this thread.

I have thought long and hard about this. I need to have things settled in my own mind. I have the tiniest flicker of love left. But, I don't know whether I am willing to make it grow or deliberately kill it.

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RIF, you are an oasis of good sense in a desert of idiocy.

Gee, wasn't that poetic. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

It worries me when our Idiots get all peculiar and disappear.

Jelly hasn't been around since before New Years. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Yep, looks like the night shift might be a bit thin. Even Liny and Bob have disappeared. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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F-Again, fixed, things are fixed. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I sometimes wonder what would have happened if Rob had found out DURING the A. I was in such a different place then, he would probably be fighting as you are now.

F-Again, until they (the foggy ones) face reality you really do have a battle on your hands.

Jen

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Hi Jen - I think Bob is doing some serious thinking... I'm pretty sure that he and Squiddy will work things out...

Hi Fighting - Sorry you are so down... I know how you're feeling. You decide what YOU want with your M, and then do what you think is best. For me, I made the decision to rebuild... it was tough, but looking back, I'm so glad that I didn't just throw everything away like my instincts told me to...

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Even Liny and Bob have disappeared. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm here, I'm here! Not for long though...first work week in 2005...YUK!
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">They don't call me tight a**ed and tight lipped around here for nothing. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Now who in the world would have the gall to call you *that*??? I'll kick his [censored], I will!

(Evenin' all!)

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Hey LINY! Happy New Year!!!!!

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