Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 252 of 339 1 2 250 251 252 253 254 338 339
#1222779 01/03/05 01:22 AM
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 4,383
A
Member
Offline
Member
A
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 4,383
Is that the guy who was the actor in Joe & the Volcano?????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1222780 01/03/05 01:26 AM
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 4,383
A
Member
Offline
Member
A
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 4,383
Night Liny


.... US can only do so much Liny...what about Saudi money I mean $10 m ????
crikey the shieks would drop more than that at the casinos each night and not miss it!!!

#1222781 01/03/05 01:35 AM
Joined: Feb 2004
Posts: 8,297
K
Member
Offline
Member
K
Joined: Feb 2004
Posts: 8,297
Yes, I have heard of Joe Namath. He used to be in ads in Playboy in the 70s. HA HA HA.

Jen

#1222782 01/03/05 02:50 AM
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
Hi Nightshift.

Well done on the year in the light Jen !! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

A real milestone.

I'm on a bit of a down part of the rollercoaster track as yu can tell <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I'll get over it I'm sure.

Hard though. Male pride is a pretty pointless thing. Why can't I just look at the FACTS of today - that squid chose to be with me, loves me and we have every chance of success rather than putting impossible unspoken demands on her, such as that she should at least look at the FACTS of OM to place her affair in context ,to really regret her affair not just its effects ?

I deserve better than being her default choice though Jen. I really do. I am personally recovered enough to realise that now.

Pride in the name of love...great song that was <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Affairs are so foul Jen....they are like emotional Tsunamis: they wash away everything good and just leave **** and tragedy in their wake.

Squid and I had a small R talk last night. I think when the kids are back at school I can open some serious topics up again. I need to know how she feels about her affair now, but I can't ask her with kids all over the place. Our 11YO DD has radar ears for grown up conversations right now and needs to be out of the house before we can talk !

Ah well....better make some coffee....

{{{{jen}}}}

#1222783 01/03/05 03:36 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
This is a fun little place. Are you accepting new citizens? I am feeling like I could be an idiot. Actually I think I already am. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> And I say that with the utmost respect of myself of course. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Tiggy

#1222784 01/03/05 03:41 AM
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
Welcome to Idiotville Tiggy ! Robby is the mayor and is funny, while LINY is not. Not the mayor and not funny. Is IS a fun little place and also is a place where idiots can bare their souls without the rest of the board throwing in their 2x4s , but don't tell anyone that, 'kay ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Currently cocktail recipes including bull semen are popular here. Do you have any perchance ? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#1222785 01/03/05 04:07 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
Currently cocktail recipes including bull semen are popular here. Do you have any perchance ?

Well that made me laugh thank you very much Mr. Bob. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Tiggy

<small>[ January 03, 2005, 01:11 PM: Message edited by: Tiggy ]</small>

#1222786 01/03/05 04:12 AM
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
Tiggy, can you tell me who wrote this :

Tiggy,

I am so glad we made it through another year together. I love you very much and I want to spend many more years together. I know I don't show it very often but I adore you. I am so lucky to have you as a part of my life. I want to look back on my life and remember all of the good times we had together. I love to be with you because I feel grounded knowing I am with you. Like I have a purpose in life. I know I haven't been the greatest husband in recent years, but I have been trying lately to be the best for you. I want to make this year the best ever. I love you sweetie.


<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Be happy darl', you are doing FINE.

#1222787 01/03/05 04:16 AM
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
Bull semen ? I'll never drink baileys again !

I one spent a night with a friend and work colleague in a seedy bar in Vienna with a group of Algerian mercenaries drinking things called 'flatliners'. Tequila, tabasco sauce & gin.

The Tabasco stays between the spirits like a red line.

It took me 2 days to recover. But WHAT a night !

No bull semen as I recall, but plenty of bull ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1222788 01/03/05 04:26 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
I know Bob. My husband wrote that. And it makes me sad that he could be so mean tonight. I was mean too though.

Does a fight wipe out that letter? I honestly almost went right over to rip it up and thought better. It is extremely unusual for him to write me anything.

I love him and it hurts when we fight, which is almost never. Maybe we need to learn how to *fight* We just usually get along you know. We are the even keel couple. Not so good I am thinking at the moment. Since, before the affair we didn't fight at all, just like now. Difference is that then we didn't like each other much either.

Sorry I am truly rambling here.
Tiggy

#1222789 01/03/05 04:29 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
Bob, I have a question. What would you like to hear your wife say that would show that she is remorseful over the affair, not just the fallout?

don't have to answer. I just sometimes ask myself what is it exactly that I am wanting here.

Tig

#1222790 01/03/05 04:31 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
Ever had a duck fart? That's a popular one here in the land of the Oregon Ducks.

Tiggy

<small>[ January 03, 2005, 03:34 AM: Message edited by: Tiggy ]</small>

#1222791 01/03/05 04:35 AM
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,612
Hey Bob,

I am going to finally shovel off and try to go nite nite. You have a good one.

Tiggy

#1222792 01/03/05 05:23 AM
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 10,107
Tig, you asked this great question :
Bob, I have a question. What would you like to hear your wife say that would show that she is remorseful over the affair, not just the fallout?

My answer is :
" I never meant my belittling fog statements, in fact my affair with OM made me realise what a good man and husband you are, and I love you. I am not with you just because I can't have OM, or becuase you give me a comfortable and secure life: I am here because I love you and want to spend my life with you".

Or something like that.

#1222793 01/03/05 07:49 AM
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
R
Member
Offline
Member
R
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
Jen said: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Isn't Intercourse in the heart of Amish country? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yes

FF: you got my address right? I've since removed it.

#1222794 01/03/05 07:57 AM
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 1,575
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 1,575
Morning I'ville.

Bob, Flatliners? Over here in Canada, we have something called a Prairie Fire. AKA Flaming ***whole <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Tequila with Tabasco. Both a Yum and an OMG type of shooter.

Too early for that though. Coffee anyone?

Hi, Tiggy. Welcome. I guess the Mayor isn't around to say that in I'ville you need a job here and relate 3 Non A idiot moments. I am the clean up crew. Starz is the sniper, I think. Bob, I don't know your job. RH? What's yours?

<small>[ January 03, 2005, 05:59 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

#1222795 01/03/05 08:00 AM
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
R
Member
Offline
Member
R
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
LINY: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I'll fly you over some liver! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ROFLMAO

Are you dutch also? I can see AW flying over liver as we speak.

#1222796 01/03/05 08:14 AM
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 1,575
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 1,575
Morning {{{Dobie}}} How are you this morning? Coffee?

#1222797 01/03/05 08:17 AM
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
R
Member
Offline
Member
R
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,276
Welcome to I-ville Tiggy. Robby is the Mayor. As FAA said you need to list three idiotic things you have done in your life (and they must be non Affair related). Once you've done that, you'll need to get a job. I am the road commissioner (hence all the potholes). Starz is our sniper. Jelly is Queen (and assistant mayor) and the town drunk. NOW is the town pyscho -logist, though she hasn't been around for awhile. Fraggles was the bartender on page one, but we haven't seen her since. LINY is the Attorney General and will sue your *** off. Brown is our cheerleader. KiwiJen is ___, Bob Pure is ____. I forget what they are. There's others I'm sure. But you get the gist.

FAA weren't you going to start a thread that compiled the idiotic things we've done?

Have a great 3rd day of 2005 all!

<small>[ January 03, 2005, 06:01 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

#1222798 01/03/05 08:27 AM
Joined: May 2004
Posts: 5,002
R
Member
Offline
Member
R
Joined: May 2004
Posts: 5,002
Good Morning Idiotville!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Whatever happened to the "thin" nightshift? I had to read 5 pages after that comment was made!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Page 252 of 339 1 2 250 251 252 253 254 338 339

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 446 guests, and 63 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Bibbyryan860, Ian T, SadNewYorker, Jay Handlooms, GrenHeil
71,839 Registered Users
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 1995-2019, Marriage Builders®. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5