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#1223019 01/04/05 11:14 AM
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RH, do you mean how old does Robby look, or how old is he actually? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

YL, oh yeah, you are sooooo sucking up

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Good Morning, RH!

? Aren't we all about "that" old?

I'm 29, of course! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Yes, I know you asked about my H, but I'm older than H, so my age is all you get! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Oh KY!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Whatever are you talking about??!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

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YL: I was really asking in a roundabout way, how old the Mayor is.

Jelly: I could really care less what he looks like. I'm just being a snoop. And yes, YL is sucking up. I could hear the suction all the way up here.


( Snoop dog signing out for lunch (fried chicken and pecan pie). )

Well, not really (signing out), but I'll be around. I'm just being an idiot NOW.

#1223023 01/04/05 11:33 AM
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I know, RH - just pullin yer chain!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> Have a bite of fried chicken for me, will ya - I miss the fried foods the most!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I'm about mid-30's-ish... though I've been told by too many people that I have a "very old soul" WT?? Thanks! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Anyway, just remembering back to his original sigline, and I'm thinking mid-30's cover's it for Mr. Mayor - maybe he will tell you...guys aren't as insecure about that as us girls, are they?

SO, how old are you???!!!

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YL,

I doubt I can give good advice twice in a row but I'll try... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by YL:
<strong> Here's the thing - we have a family picture that has hung on our wall since 12-01...5-02 was first D-day. The pic has been there all this time, and I've dusted it, and admired it, and thought "Wow! we looked so happy there"

This past weekend, I was in the office, and something in the pic caught my eye - actually, it was something that wasn't there - my H was not wearing his wedding band...so I looked, REALLY LOOKED at the pic, and NOBODY in the pic really seemed to be happy -

This weekend, even before I saw the pic, too many things just seemed to be a repeat to the start of 2002 - I'm just going crazy I guess, reading too much into too many things...

So, here I was feeling safe, and BAM!!! Right between the eyes.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Reading too much into things, maybe!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> But why? Lots of triggers... and a brand new one too! One you hadn't discovered before. Things have been going well for you in recovery so what's this?

Doubt. Things are going well and doubt raises it's ugly head. Doubt that makes you second-guess everything around you. Doubt that makes you oompare now to another time you thought things were good.

"If it could happen then...."

Doubt.

From what you've said your H is a new man. Not proud of his past actions. This picture (along with other "little things") has raised the hair on the back of your neck just a bit.

Is it right? Well, it's understandable.

Is it fair?

Let's take your H at his word... that he wasn't thinking about OW. He probably wasn't... in fact I'd dare say he definitely wasn't!! Men aren't as complex as women. We have much more simple minds. The blank look? Not photogenic, thinking about Nascar race/football game/baseball game/ basketball game/ hockey/ pro wrestling that was coming on tv later and trying to figure out if he would make it in time.

Really not more complex than that.

So what do you do now? Well the old picture was pre dday, time to get a new one. A recovery one. But try to let it be his idea... he's a man. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Guess it doesn't really matter how old the mayor is. I figured he'd be smacking me with a 2x4 before now. Oh well.

Guess you're as old as you feel. Lately, I feel old, though I'm only in my early 40's. Age didn't used to mean much to me, but now going through this, with my creaking knees I guess it gets to me a little more. (But, I'll live.) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Hi Kimmy (waving), and Happy New Year! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

GC

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Recovering H:
<strong> YL: I was really asking in a roundabout way, how old the Mayor is.

Jelly: I could really care less what he looks like but I hope he's cute! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How old am I??

17!!

If I count years the same way Jelly does!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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I heard she was 231 years old (in dog years), but I'm in no way calling her a dog. But I remember that it is all about her. So I could be wrong on the age, it might 229. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

J/K

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Oh, I wouldn't do 17 again if you paid me!

27, heck ya! 17 with the hornymones and the gawkiness, no way!

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DOH!!!! I just realized that's your sigline...NNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! Say it isn't so!!!

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Mrs. Robby13 is a very lucky woman, her H is handsome, witty, and can get the senior discount way before his time. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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RH - MAN!!! That's a deep hole you're diggin there man!! Good thing you're the Road Commissioner - you're gonna hafta fix it, ya know!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Kimmy - NOPE!!! I wouldn't take back 17 or 27 (unless I could take this body with me...I look better today, than I did at either one of those ages) (Oh, and EXPERIENCE - I'd have to be able to take this experience, then, I'd go back to 15, and start over with my old soul!) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

KY - I don't think you look a day over 24, sweetie, I don't care what RH says!!

MAN!!! I am the suck-up QUEEN today!! (settle down ST! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> )

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ST and I have been watching our littly one, and we would love to be 3 again, just for a day.

No worries, just fun, security, and lots of love in his little world.

RH - <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Robby is waaaaaaaaaaay older than me, kind of like you, but I think you even have him beat, Grandpa.

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YL, (I think)

To answer your Q about AZ.

I fly out there Sunday night and come back Wednesday. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Of course I'm still on the "Do Not Fly" list so I may be late!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Wait a minute, your going to AZ, where is this posted. I really need to read up.

24 <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> It would have been nicer had you said, 18. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Kimmy sounds 10 and looks 24. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by kyellow4:
<strong> Robby is waaaaaaaaaaay older than me, kind of like you, but I think you even have him beat, Grandpa. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">So I guess "Truth in Labeling" wasn't one of your New Years resolutions!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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What is not true about that????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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so I go out for a few hours & you lot start talking about ages.......I mean whats that????


<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

P.S. MC was ok if you consider A2 lying back in the couch watching the planes come in as his contribution..no not fair, he grunted a few times, smiled & thought the Police helo was busy..... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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