</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> But chocolate on the side, right Jelly?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ALWAYS!!!!


{{{{faith and f-again}}}}


And the rest of you too {{{{i-ville}}}}

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Your greetings just brought a sweet smile to my face after such a sad evening and even though this thread is for fun stuff, I'm going to let it all out here. My 9 yr old had a melt-down. She called me to her room and was lying on her bed crying and it went something like this,
"I'm so sad for all the Tsunami victims and all those children who lost their parents and I wish you were their mum because you're such a nice mum and even though daddy doesn't like you anymore, I do but we can never be a proper family without a daddy. And I don't want you to keep-fit because you're fine just like you are. And I know that daddy is living with someone else because I listened on the telephone. And I don't want to grow up because I'm scared the same thing might happen to me that daddy has done to you"
That was about it. Not an easy night. I promise to lighten up in future. (This was a child who had been told daddy was working away for a while. Kids are definitely not idiots). TT

FAA move over hon... we can party together as my jerk wouldn't come to the scan.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
thought I was ok with it but I'm not!!

need more food and a foot rub and some peace & quiet.
A back rub would be nice too.
want want want I know........ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

AW: Might be tough getting those books out of DD's room, so you might have to just have her do the reading. Might be a good break for you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

AW, how funny, I just finished reading Green Eggs and Ham, just this second. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by kyellow4:
<strong> You know I think they shut another thread down that was quite long, due to how long it took to boot up. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Are you sure??

I think it's still there!!

[[[[[[[[[[ TT & your DD ]]]]]]]]]]]

kids are not stupid. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

TT, that is tough. Poor little thing. She is for sure not an idiot. They see and hear so much more than we realize. {{{{TT}}}} We have told my boy nothing, but I wonder what he knows. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Now that it is out there, are you going to explain things???

AW, it was an important event to you. Did he realize this before and does he know? That way in the future he can be sure to make it to such things, so your feelings don't get hurt.

TT: Kids are so much smarter than what most people give them credit for.

{{{{{TT}}}}}

Hey RH that would be a great solution........ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I'll book that in asap hehehe <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Are you sure??

I think it's still there!!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm an Idiot, therefore, not sure of anything, I just throw stuff out there and hope nobody can prove me wrong. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

It's all crap, everything I say, just crap. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

kyellow - well, hard as it was, we hugged and talked. I shut the door and let her talk and cry and I didn't tell her everything was going to be okay. She knew far more than I realised so I thought I would go with the flow. I reassured her that we both love her, that I am never going to leave her, that she should talk to me more and it's okay to be angry. I told her that I am angry at daddy but I still care about him and she said she's angry too and feels worse when she sees him. God bless all the children suffering their parents' infidelity. What innocent little victims. Makes me ashamed to be a grown up. TT

{{{TT & DD}}}}

Its what WS do to their kids that kills me. I mean Treereichs H has been SO sh1tty to their son it untrue. Now your WH and others....

Almighty God protect the little ones affected by infidelity with your angels. Keep safe and pure their trusting and fragile hearts and surround them with your love to make up for the missing love of the WS parent.

And deliver blessings in abundance to the children of FWS and FBS and their parents as they strive to surround their children in recovered love.

In faith I pray

Amen.

No Jelly I haven't actually said anything yet as I'm not sure this week who's in there..

I get anger, silence , anger, silence, then he drops back into the real world ..been a bit hard to keep up. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Not really sure how stable he is right now, hoping he coming over the hump so to speak <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Bob Pure:
<strong>That make any sense ? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Perfect sense.

Thank you Bob! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

TT, sounds like you handeled that perfectly. I have tears coming down my face, thinking about the conversation I could have had with my boy. Telling him about my infedelity. Praise God, my H knew it would be the best thing to not do that. I was ready to have the talk with him. I'm very honest with my boy, I give him that respect of not hiding things from him. Maybe when he is a man, I will have that talk with him. Right now I will spare his sweet innocent heart. I'm sorry for your DD's pain. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

AW, you are dealing with so much. One day at a time for sure in your case.

Bob Pure, has anybody told you today how darn sweet you are. What a blessing to this world you are.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> It's all crap, everything I say, just crap </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">We knew that, but hadn't been calling you on it.


Well, Jelly, looks like JustUss will be looking for you shortly. Oops and now me too.

Kyellow, I'm off to bed. Yes, it was gut-wrenchingly sad and I wish she'd been spared the pain. If you make it through this rollercoaster, why should your son ever have to know? Goodnight.

Jelly, I just had a thought. (Yeah, I know go ahead, I know you want to). But maybe your nickname has been leading your actions and thus the weight gain and the jelly arms.

Maybe you should change your nickname to rockhardabs or flattummy or something? hahaha