Oops, I forgot. Jelly, I did NOT edit in I'Ville. ASked first and then took it offline. All taken care of. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Sorry about the owie parts. Me too. Had to shovel that awful stuff yesterday and my shoulders are begging for mercy today!

Hi, everyone else. See me waving? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

LOL Dobie

LINY so Brown is your wife I take it? Why the heck do you call her Brown? I'm sure she'd be tickled pink to know that you announced that her 'Aunt Flo' is now gone LMAO

Yeah, so my name is Caren (You probably already figured that out) I'll be 37 on the 22nd of this month. I've been married for 9 years, together with WH for 12 (not counting the 4 months we've been separated). I have 3 kids...all girls, their ages are 19, 13 and 10. Only the youngest is biologically my husband's.

I was going to school for nursing, but haven't gone for the last 2 quarters, because of the emotional turmoil...can't concentrate.

I work at a hospital as a Patient Care Tech. I work on the trauma floor, so it's never boring, and we are a 'Level 1' trauma center, which means we get all the gnarly stuff...it's pretty cool.

I've lost like 20 lbs on the 'Your husband's cheating on you' plan, so I weigh like 120, I'm 5'6" and a 1/2 (Don't forget the 1/2), auburn hair. I'm the reason for the saying dynamite comes in small packages.....LOL.

I don't really have any hobbies, I need to get me one of those.

I am currently plan Aing my husband. Have no solid evidence of the affair, but plenty of circumstancial. WH totally denies any type of affair, says he just doesn't want to be married anymore.

I hacked into my WH cell phone account, then got all ballistic on Christmas Eve and threw the print outs in his face, so...ummmm he changed the password. I also hacked the OW's cell account, but shhhhhhhh....I don't think that's legal.

Was hospitalized for suicidal thoughts, currently off work on temp. leave. I'm on an Anti-D (Zoloft) but it's not working...and yes, I've been on it about 3 months. Also on Xanax for anxiety and Ambien to sleep. (Never had any of these problems prior to D-Day).

WH and I have been separated for 4 months (I think I mentioned that once), I only started plan A about a week ago....before that I was just thrashing around in pain.

That's about it. I'm all screwed up...LOL

-Caren

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I'm all screwed up </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No Caren, YOU are not the one who is screwed up.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by nikko:
<strong> here would be fine mayor sir.....and yeah i kinda read it...why not</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A special note:
This book was written for the partner who had an affair—if that’s not you, then please give this book to your spouse and do not read it; it wasn’t written for you. If you want your partner to undo the damage they did by having an affair, then you’re going to have to give them the opportunity to do it—on their own. I know the pain that you feel right now—and I know how hard it might be for you to put this book down. But who can tell your spouse how to soothe your pain better than a person who has also experienced it? No one. Please give me some time alone with your spouse—and do not read this book.

i know you probanly arent familiar with my sitch so ill try to be simple.....aint friggin gonna happen no way no how.......he hasnt done one follow up to one thing hes promised at all....lol

i read the book and wanted input from ws's as to if they thought it was helpful. there is so much written for the bs's but this is intended for the ws. maybe it could help others and i never saw it recommended. thats why i am asking.

i have no more real hope for my marriage...its been so long and ive lost so much additional trust, faith and respect for him since d-day. so i figured it may help someone else. but i wanted ws's opinion before i started really recommending it around.

any thoughts??

FAA said: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> See me waving? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I see your tongue waving

Caren: Brown is LINY's wife.

NOW is my W.

Shivering Timbers is Jelly's H.

Robby: Caren is still looking for a job here in I-ville. Any suggestions? (Maybe our TNT sales person?)

<small>[ January 08, 2005, 04:18 PM: Message edited by: Recovering H ]</small>

see---this is why i didnt post much here---im a thread killer!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

ok its sat night---im alone drinking kool-aid reading computer and alone.....i knew i would kill this if i came here.......where the heck is everyone.

I have to go get pretty now.

I'm still here. I have no life. I spent the day pulling toilets, and taking them out in the yard to snake them (in the rain). But did have success. I got two balls, a eyeliner pencil, some change and a plastic boat out of them. Now they work.

Hoboys, this conference is boring !!!

A few drinks with old friends at the Irish bar tonight in the 'new york new york' hotel.

Lovely txt from Squid at bedtime ( for her). She does love me you know.

I hope she does her homework ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I have to go get NOW. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

What am I saying?

NOW: Hmmm, all you did was put on some chapstick.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have to go get pretty now. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

How do you go get something you already have?

Oh, I see put some chapstick on to keep those luscious lips soft for me.

Get a room you two!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Hey Bob!!

Make sure to stop by the Dragon Pit!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Robby, if I don't "see" you again before you go to AZ, I really, really, really, really, really, really, really hope the interview goes well and you get the job.

I also really, really, really hope you don't get locked in the bathroom and go through the interview with your fly undone.

Now, remember the woman I was on the interview panel for.

These are the rules:

When they ask you anything just nod and say "yes." Don't elaborate or expand in any way.

When they ask if you have any questions ask about pay and leave.

If you do that, you're a shoe in. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Jen

OOh, I forgot she was wearing some sort of weird fur lined boots and a weird hand knitted sweater.

That look is a MUST.

Jen

I quite like talking to myself.

I have very intelligent conversations.

Ha aha ha ha ha.

Jen