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#1223979 01/10/05 08:34 PM
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Hey Starz, trying to kill the thread? LOL,j/k.

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Robby: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I flew in to AZ last night. Checked in 4 hours early and then went back home and packed. It worked out great!! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Is this like your skirt falling down because it was too tight?

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Evening everyone! Wow - Justuss has been really busy! I go to sleep and look what happens. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ..

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Hellooooooooooo!!!!
Anybody out there??????

I see the girls were keeping Pat busy today ... oh how I miss you all.

I know alls I've been doin' is post-bys. I'm sorry. I haven't had too much time and when LINY is home (even when he's sick) I really prefer to spend time with him - no offense.

And I hate to come to Idiotville when I'm feelin' kinda down. I don't really know if I could put it into words anyhow. I'm having a rough time of it and I know LINY's sick of the R talks (and so am I ..... but I don't know how to get passed all this .... I don't know if I can get passed it ... I keep hoping and trying <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> )

Well, I have to go set up the VCR to tape "Medium" for LINY. It's another draw back about working nightshift. (Biggest draw back I miss my LINY very much and want to spend more time with him). But someone told me today we have another 3 day weekend coming up. Fed holiday Monday - Happy Birthday Martin (RIP).

And for the record it's taken me an hour to write this post (no I'm not that slow ... I had to pick up LINY from work for dinner, so he can have the car to get home).

Brown

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Hi RIF how are you tonight???

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Hi {{Brown}}, sorry you are feeling down. (hey that I'a poet and didn't know it) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Seriously, this IS the place to come if you are feeling blue. Anything in particular? I had a few moments today, but got through it. We are skipping MC tonight. No babysitter. Can't say I am really sorry, I was not looking forward to more days of H being grumpy.

Hi RIF

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Oh my garsh, I got edited! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I'm having a rough time of it and I know LINY's sick of the R talks (and so am I ..... but I don't know how to get passed all this .... I don't know if I can get passed it ... I keep hoping and trying )
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey Brown - we all feel like we "can't" do this sometimes.... but trust me... you and LINY CAN DO THIS ... You don't have to rebuild everything in one day... take little baby steps.... celebrate your sucesses... learn from your mistakes... and work on yourself and your M every chance you get...

I'm praying for you guys.... hang in there, it does get better!

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Evening I'ville. I'm home. Well, home here in I'ville and home in my house that might be sold. Yay! 3 days until I am in Victoria. Me, my dog, my computer and my clothes. No home, just DD over there and the Dork. Sigh. I can just see this rollercoaster going off track a time or ten.

HI, RObby! Kept everything crossed for ya <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Hey FF - Yeah, you and Jen must have been really baaaaaad girls!!! How are you doing this evening?

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Hey FAA - How did it go with the CO today??

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Hi, RIF. THanks for asking. COuldn't get through. I knew that would happen. One brow phone for 300 crew members. THen I had to be at work. But, tomorrow, I am going in late so I get to worry myself to death for another night. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

10 more weeks or so for you, right?

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Hi FF - yes you did get **EDITED** (hehehe) I remember the 1st time I got **EDITED**. Of all people I was writitng to it was Bob and we both got busted over his dog's bowel troubles (hehehehe) - Bob if you're out there - how it the dog anyway!?!?!?.

RIF - yes please and thank you - keep praying for us. I know in my heart we can get through this. It's just some rough times, ya know?

F-again - how's it going??

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FAA - Well, you hang in there and keep trying... When are they due back in port? I actually haven't started counting weeks yet... gotta keep my game face on until we're actually out of here...

Hey Brown - Yep, I know all about the rough times... You and LINY are GOING to make it... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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{{{brown}}} Blech about sums it up for me, too. My dog is sicky-poos as well. But, since the message were all deleted by th etime I read, I don't know if you were really talking about dogs.

I am moving in 3 days. I couldn't contact the CO. DOrk is a Dork. My DD sounds sad. ANd I am now homeless and jobless and going to move to try to work things out with a bonehead. What can I say. I need a 2x4. Not sure if it is for a weapon or just to smack myself to stop whining. Probably both. Other than that, life is grand.

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RIF, They've been alongside since before Christmas. Which is one of the most frustrating things. EVERY day WH and the OW get to go to work together, and go home together. And, I get to obsess about how powerless I am at this stage. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Of course starting Thursday, I informed WH that DD and I will pick him up after work. ANd Friday as well. AND Saturday SS will joing DD, WH and me to go visit SIL. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Sunday, I asked WH to pick an activity for the family. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

NOW I get to PLAN A for real. EVERY frickin' day, I will be there at the gate, waiting for the DOrk. I was going to drive him in the mornings as well but logistically that is not possible. But, you never know that might be coming soon, too.

WH is now on a much shorter leash, so to speak. He cannot hide from me and I fully intend to "help" him remember what a family unit looks like. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

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FAA - Well, I hope things work out for you and your family... Good luck when you talk with the CO... I do hope that he'll do the right thing... and separate your H and the OW...

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F-again - yes CO's can be very helpful. I spoke to my ex's CO while he was still in bootcamp over a child support issue. He said, "Miss are you absolutely sure this enlistedman is the child's father?". I said, "Yes, sir". He said, "Will we need any ... Hum ... tests?". I said, "No, sir". He said, "Thank you and be assured Mr. ******** will sign the papers. Do you have any questions?" I said, "No, sir". A week later I got a letter from him stating what his "findings" were and the paperwork was being processed from FT Knox to Fla.

Good luck F-Again and God bless

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****edit by JustUss*****

<small>[ January 11, 2005, 07:29 AM: Message edited by: robby13 ]</small>

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Robby? What's wrong? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ January 10, 2005, 11:12 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

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