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#1224199 01/12/05 02:18 AM
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fa-a - thanks for what you said on my journal the other day!

This is my good night post. I'm not much use as an idiot. I can't seem to find all these wonderful scrappy skirmishes that seem to be going on lately.

Yawn. Gotta get up in like 5 hrs. Doh!

GC

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Wait, bob. You're in the NYNY hotel right? Get some of that NY attitude: Why didn't you just b@tch slap her and say, "Where's my drink?"


DISCLAIMER: for anybody lurking, this is a JOKE. You know? Just kidding? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> The play on the stereotypical NY attitude? Ah forget it...

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Ah, GC, you ARE an idiot! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Nite man.

#1224202 01/12/05 02:22 AM
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Liny, DID the paper plane ever make it.

Sheesh, I've had far too much wine and the stupid, frickin' keyboard won't work.

Bob, I think I've disappointed you. I'm sorry. People here who see the "recovered" Jen have NO idea what Rob and I went through.

Jen

#1224203 01/12/05 02:23 AM
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HI liny !

No tonight we werein the Ellis Island casino and micro brewery.
Lots of old trans-ams in the car park, if you catch my drift <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#1224204 01/12/05 02:27 AM
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Bob, I think I've disappointed you.

Never DARE say that to me again ! You are my HEROINE and you know it !!!!!

I love you enough to speak freely with you. Tonight would be my nightmare. For you two it was closure. Thats why you have recovery Jen. Because you two have not been scare dto do what works for YOU !. I remember you saying that your midnight shouting matches had been amongst the most progressive talks you had when MB says ' no LBS'.

I listened. I will learn from you rlatest escapade in the same way Jen. I am a different man no than I was 6 months ago. I will be dfferent again in another six months. Will I be as cool as Rob ? maybe. but without the sexy accent <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I love you, I learn from you, I thank God for you.

NEVER DARE say stuff like that to me again, kay ????

#1224205 01/12/05 02:41 AM
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Kay, Bob.

Taking my little drunken tail between my legs and going to talk to the only man that matters.

Thanks, guys, I knew you'd all come through for me.

What a freakin' week.

Thank God, "difficult woman" is on vacation this week.

I couldn't cope. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Jen

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the only man that matters.

Its a lucky man who is the centre of his wife's world, Jen.

I pray will b the centre of Squids someday.

{{{jen}}}

#1224207 01/12/05 02:47 AM
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Well, I'ville, I'm knackered, missing my Squid and my kids dreadfully, tired of Vegas and ready for bed.

Bless you all ( particularly Jen and family at this hard time). See you in the morning all.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Bob Pure:
<strong> the only man that matters.

Its a lucky man who is the centre of his wife's world, Jen.

I pray will b the centre of Squids someday.

{{{jen}}} </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hi Bob,

I've never posted to you before, but I just want to take this opportunity to tell you how much I admire you and how much you deserve to be the centre of Squid's world. I have followed your situation for a while and feel so inadequate in my own efforts. But you inspire me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Thank you.

Suzanne

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Why, Bob? When you can sleep in those bloody seminars? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Peace, man. (And rememeber--you are your children's hero, becoming squid's hero again, and many of us here on MB. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> )

#1224210 01/12/05 02:55 AM
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Wel Susutimes 2 and LINY, you made me cry.

Six foot hairy one eighty pound beast in tears.

Thank you for your kindness. I have feet of clay I assure you.

But I'll take kudos tonight 'cos I'm lonely , sad and a bit frightened.

Thanks

{{{both}}}

and all blessings to you

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Hey LINY - How are you doing this evening? I've been popping in and out between meetings... so I'm not able to keep up especially when Mr. Mayor and Jen fill up two whole pages! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Hey Bob - You stay away from those cute waitresses!

Hey Jen - I posted on your other thread... You did good <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Hey Suzanne - Welcome to I-Ville. Robby is the mayor and you have to have a job. Membership "dues" are telling us all three idiotic things that you've done that aren't affair related...

If I missed anyone... here's a big "HI" to everyone I missed!!! Hope you're all having a great evening/early morning/day where ever you are!

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I pray for the day that--well, that we are out of recovery and back to living--living to our fullest and the best we all can be to one another.

It must be my time of month--my emotions have been so extreme today. Don't know whether to cry, be angry, be alone...all I know, is that I wish I hadn't learned the hard way. But I did. And I', trying every day to show brown my girls and myself what a "real man" is.

*SIGH*

., still no mail. I know you've had some wine, but here it is again in caps: FITZIRISHCREAM@OPTONLINE.NET

Gotta go all. Not sure how much more my emotions can take tonight. But, at least it's ending on a positive note. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Nite all. (And susu, you're very welcome to visit Idiotville anytime. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )

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Hey RIF--good to see you're keepin' busy adn the boys in line! My emotions have been all over the place today. Maybe a god night's sleep will help--and the fact brown and I have three days this wekend and not just two.

Good nite!

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Hey Suzanne - Welcome to I-Ville. Robby is the mayor and you have to have a job. Membership "dues" are telling us all three idiotic things that you've done that aren't affair related...

Okay, Wow, I didn't realize there were "dues" but I am sure I can come up with at least three idiotic things I have done. I actually posted one on another thread the other day. My brother was visiting me and when I took him to the airport to go home we stopped at Denny's for breakfast. He looked at me and said, "Did you know your shirt is on inside out?" I looked down and, sure enough!! So I went to the bathroom to put it right. I went into a stall, changed the shirt and came out and looked in the mirror. I did and double take and thought, "Why are there urinals in here?" Yep, I was in the men's restroom--in a very crowded restaurant. You should have seen the looks I got when I came out. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

Let's see...Two nights ago I put water on for tea around 11:30 pm. The next morning around 8:00, my brother asked me if I had water on for tea. "Yeah" Well, the teapot didn't survive.

It's hard to think of a third incident that is non-affair related. The only other thing I can think of right now is when I killed my daughters' betta fish(es). I cleaned one bowl and refilled it. Five minutes later I looked and the fish was floating. But I had also cleaned the other daughter's fish bowl and it looked okay. A couple of minutes later it was dead too. Hmmmm, I still don't know how I managed that. I had done it numerous times before. But it really did make me feel idiotic. I guess that means I don't get the job of fish bowl cleaner in Idiotville <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

So can I be the belly button lint collector or is that position already taken?

Thanks all.

Suzanne

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by LINY:

<strong>Nite all. (And susu, you're very welcome to visit Idiotville anytime. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thank you LINY. It was a nice place to visit so I guess I decided to emigrate. Such a nice break from the usual place of residence.

Take care all. So, do you have a Welcome Wagon lady? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Suzanne

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Susutimes, you can be our belly button lint cleaner any time. It's the one job that's vacant funnily enough.

Susu, the whole thing about Idiotville is that we're idiots, but we're here for each other any time day or night. We're here for anyone in need.

What a day.

Gosh, just had "ahem" as well.

Rob and I are so good it's dangerous. I mean good "recovered". (blushing).

Jen

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Thanks Jen,

I appreciate your insights so much. This site and the people on it have been a Godsend for me. I am going to try to get some sleep, something I have been not doing enough of lately.

I am so glad to read about your recovery. It gives me such a hope. Thank you for your openness.

Suzanne

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Hey Suzanne - I think having your shirt on backwards, and then going into the men's room would count for two separate events... so the teapot and beta fish slaughter would give you a grand total of 4 idiodic things! Good Job!!! BTW, did you happen to put any de-chlorinator stuff in the water before you put the Beta's in there??? Most fish don't like plain old tap water with lots of chlorine in it... he he he...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Gosh, just had "ahem" as well.

Rob and I are so good it's dangerous. I mean good "recovered". (blushing).

Jen </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sure Jen... rub it in for those of us that have to wait a couple of months for SF... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> I'm glad that things ahem..."worked out" for you guys... Rob must be a really special guy...

Hey Bob -you'll be home on Sunday!!!! So we all expect to see lots of "ahem"s from you when you get back <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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