I've wanted to tale this slowly since day 1, WW is the one that is placing me in the middle of the Daytona 500. I want a pit stop so badly I can't stand it.

WHOA NEEEEEELLLLLLIE!

Take a hold of your reins man! Why think that far in the future? You're still married now! I know some of your story and NO WS looks like they'll ever break the fog. You need to concentrate on the hear and now for you, and the future of only your children.

BTW:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I always promised myself, long before I ever considered M, that I would only do it ONE TIME.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This "promise" you made to "yourself" IMHO is null and void; one can't make a promise to ONESSELF with other people's influences. The "promise"/marriage you have is not deterioting by your doing, if my understanding is correct.

Anyway, stop thinking so far ahead.

Who's got the coffee brewing today?

morning everyone.....welcome hosea and sus! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

just caught up....you all have been busy. lol

got a lot going on.....hubby is finally on anti d's and getting help.....we are three yrs since dday....i wish he would come here and talk to you all....he is a very depressed ws. he really needs someone to show him the light at the end of the tunnel and i know it cant be me to educate him. he needs encouragement and enlightenment.....anyway.

morning all

morning Liny and Nikko. Liny got the coffee going since FAA is falling down on the job. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Gotta run and get DD to school.

Hosea, you still owe us three non A idiotic things and get a job!!!

LINY I truly wish I had !!! Theres no dam' coffemaking facilities in these hotel rooms !!!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

* YAAAAAAAAWWWWWNNNNNNN! *

(welllll...yawning is contagious! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> )

Morning everyone I haven'y addressed yet!

nikko....send him to I-ville...it's "safe" and there are some of us FWH {raising hand} around. But most importantly, as starz noted, she has no clue "who is who." Anyway, have him look over your shoulder a few times....just a thought....(If not, you could always tie him to the desk chair, plant him in front of the PC, and you type for him!)

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Theres no dam' coffemaking facilities in these hotel rooms !!!</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If I'm ever in Vegas, remind me NEVER to go to the NYNY. OMG!!!! No coffeemakers?!?!? What? They can't afford one? Do they supply a tap in ech room though?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I live on coffee!

I'm staying in Bally's but NONE of the strip hotels have coffeemakers. They have Spanish speaking people bring you cofee for $9 a cup if you call room service.

RIP OFF !!!!

Bob
thats just BARBARIC...no tea making facilities....I mean where are you???? France????? LOL hehehehehhehehehe <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

(yes I know the city of sin)

I think this says it all.........

Support bacteria - they're the only culture some people have.

WTF?!?!?!? Ah...but it does all make sense, really: Why would they want gamblers to be alert and awake?!?!?!? (Hence, why I asked you half serious: "Do they have a tap in each room?") It really wouldn't surprise me!!!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Hosea_2004:
<strong>I always promised myself, long before I ever considered M, that I would only do it ONE TIME.

So now, I am faced with a dilema, Do I break my lifelong promise to myself, if recovery is impossible, or do I live alone for the rest of my life? This is a painful realization that I just might have to make that decision, and things are looking more & more like I will. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I too think it's too early to know what your future holds, but I want to answer your question. Being here, on MB, will change you. You will be a different Hosea, more like a Hose-B! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Since you will have changed your past "promises" cannot apply, by default. It's an idealist promise and one we all hope and pray for, but cannot guarantee. What if your W got hit by a bus? Would you feel you would have to be alone for the rest of your life? I think not. Go watch Braveheart. Dude loved two chicks in the same movie but not by his own choice. First love was taken away, just as yours may be.

liny--thanks for the advice....i was kinda hoping to get him here....i think meeting you and some of the other fws here would help him tremendously. and the part of tying him up and forcing him......been tossing that idea around for three years...lol <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

he needs hope and guidance....and fun! i know he can get it here. i also know he wont be sent running...the main board has scared me lately.

Bob,

See, you're responding all wrong if you want to get rid of these women. Telling them that you're married just makes some of them think "What a nice, loyal guy!" and they're more attracted.

Next time, belch loudly, scratch your personal area vigorously, then pick your nose and wipe it on her apron. I guarantee she'll back off.

I've had men see my wedding ring and pursue me. I enthusiastically tell them that my divorce is almost final, but I'm looking for a new husband to take care of me and my six children. Then I ask how much money he makes. Works every time.

Dobie

Bob,

Call the concierge. They will bring you a coffee machine.

nikko, if it helps any, most of us also have exhanged email addresses--except .--still waiting for her paper airplane. Anyway, it's just another option, if you'd like. I think this--being in Idiotville is a great start for him though. Maybe print some of the 400 pages and show him?

LOL dobie! (but, true!)

Hey robby, when's your interview/meeting today?

Actually, I have been told that in Vegas they don't put coffee pots in the room because they want you to get up and go downstairs to the casino as soon as possible. When we were there, there was no coffee pot. But there was a starbuck's downstairs! Way cool. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> But I like coffee in bed better. Every morning of my adult life, IB has brought me coffee in bed. (Except for the day after I exposed. Boy, was he mad.) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Robby - good luck again today.

Everybody else - I can't possibly remember everybody. I am sorry, but I am an idiot. Welcome Susu- the bathroom one was a double, as I see it. Only one more necessary. (Well, not really, but we love to read about other idiots.)

Good morning, all.

Dobie belch loudly, scratch your personal area vigorously, then pick your nose and wipe it on her apron. I guarantee she'll back off.
I fixed all that in plan A <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Robby, tried that, no can do.

Mornin' starz!
{waving}