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H just got back from business trip and got e-mail from woman he met at business function last night . Wanted to know if he would be in the city in jAN TO MEET FOR SUSHI -he doesn't even eat sushi !! She works with guy that used to work for H asnd he did mention seeing that guy at this cocktail party but not the girl . Do some women just assume any man will cheat ?? WOULDN'T SHE HAVE ASKED THE GUY ABOUT h availability before following up with e-mail thanking him for drinks etc..
Really flipping out - i've got spectorsoft so see every e-mail he sends and receives and nothing unusual until this. I know you'll tell me to wait and see if he responds but I want him to tell me about the e-mail -to trust me with this info to build trust !!
How can I get him to tell me ? Not good at hiding felings and when he wakes up, will bbe able to tell I'm wacked out . He was out late that night so there is frictions between us about that anyway.
Please give me your thoughts on resolving this quickly -it's the holidays and want to be in great spirits not flipping out !!
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<small>[ December 25, 2004, 03:38 PM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>
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You are right. I'm going to tell you to wait until husband responds. Otherwise you won't know if this is her attempt at "networking" or getting more business, or at hitting on your husband.
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I believe in radical honesty.
Discuss this with him, and tell him of your discomfort with the email this woman sent him.
Yes, I agree that some women assume any man will cheat.
I don't like any sort of email relationships between co-workers of the opposite sex. My husband and I have a shared email account. He does have a work email account, but I simply trust him there. I was the WS, not him, so I see no reason not to trust him.
Hopeful_Person
Remarried after divorcing due to my infidelity
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