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Alank,
Dont listen to her. Pep is right...she makes no sense. She is telling you those things to make her believe it. How silly!
Just stay completely dark...and dont believe one word out of her mouth. It is good things are slowing down for you...that is what Plan B is supposed to do.
Your WW will pull her head out, or she wont. Nothing you can do about that now. Just keep going in the direction you have set. God will take care of the rest. when I finally did a good Plan B, my wife would leave messages about how great things are, etc. Later, I founD out nothing was further from the truth. It took about 5 weeks of all of that until she cracked.
Stay the course my man. You are doing a great thing here.
In His arms.
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Sorry to hear that, but how is the hamster?
Your wife is still off in la-la land. Go on with your life. She may be back.
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The hamster is great as are my girls <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Sometimes I just want it all to end, and I have started to feel better about everything now that WW is leaving messages saying her life is so good right now. It may not be that way, but it has made it better for me to think she is in a good place for her.
I am still in my Plan B and I wont leave it, so I will see what the future will bring.
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Hey Alank - Was wondering how you and your girls and the hampster were doing... glad to hear that they're doing well...
We miss you over in Idiotville... sorry that I can't offer you any help with plan-b... but just don't have any experience to offer up...
Say hi to your girls and the Hampster for me!!!
Semper Fi,
RIF
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Hi Al, you missed the convo in Idiotville recently where we all miss your hamster. (and you of course <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) So can you send her over for a while to hang out with us? Seriously though, I am glad you are doing ok. How are the girls? Is WW seeing them much? You are so strong to be doing plan B so well. God bless you and your girls (and hamster) and keep us updated on you.
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Alan,
I agree. She's tried all of the other tricks to compromise your Plan B so she is now resorting to sour grapes; "I like the way things are, I really, really do". She doesn't like it at all.
Glad to see you posting. I was concerned about you.
Hang in there. It's up to her now.
Just out of curiosity - in the past, was she very stubborn? Did she admit mistakes easily?
That may be what is keeping her where she is - her stubborn pride.
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Legato, she ahs never wanted to admit a mistake.
She is very set in her ways, always has been.
If this is good I am glad to hear it, as st this point I just don't know what is up or down with her. I am just waiting to see what happens next.
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Wow it is realy amazing to go back and read all of the old stuff. I was in a bad place when this all started. Thanks for all the help from everyone here.
Just me my girls and a hamster.
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