Has anyone read the book: Forgiving and Not Forgiving: A New Approach to Resolving Intimate Betryal?<P>I read a mini-article in a magazine last night......and wonder if anyone has read it, and what do they think......from the mini-article, it kinda goes against the MB principles, but they give you so little information, who knows.....It was three situations and when to forgive and when to forget.....<P>The one that caught my attention:<BR>"Situation: You discover your boyfriend (insert spouse) has cheated......"<BR>"Forgive if: (S)he confesses, begs forgiveness and swears it'll never happen again........"<BR>"Forget if: (S)he denies it until confronted with evidence and only then say (s)he's sorry....(Hear the part that got me fretting again) IT MAKES YOU WONDER:WAS IT HIS/HER FIRST TRANSGRESSION?"<P>I'm not sure what my thoughts are.....just that it has me thinking......anyone read it?