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I need a keylogger for my home computer. I am going to be deployed for 2 months (I'm military), and would like something that can be installed without my spouse finding out. I would also like a program that will email me daily reports of what is going on, on my computer, each day. And something that's from a reliable company - my sister paid $29.95 for one of these programs, and when she installed it on her PC, it gave it a virus.
So, what do you all recommend??? Thanks in advance!!
Veni Vidi PEACHY!
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Go to spectorsoft.com and download eblaster directly onto the computer you want watched. It will completely disappear from sight and do what you want.
Warning: Before you do this, you must set up an e mail account to have the information sent to. If you already have one that can't be seen by your spouse, use it. If not, go to Yahoo.com and set up a free email account to have the information sent to. Do this before you download eblaster.
It not only is a keylogger, but will notify you what e mails are received on the machine and can notify you immediately of chats and IM.
It costs $99.00 and is worth twice that, in my opinion.
I eat animals.
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Oh, but watch when you order it that your spouse doesn't see it show up on a credit card report. Maybe give a friend the money, and have them use THEIR card to order it?
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Good point. But ask to use their card # on your machine - I tried the remote install and it didn't work because of the software he already had on the machine. I recommend the direct download. Good luck.
I eat animals.
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Thank you for the replies - that is JUST what I need. I have my own credit card (to use in case I have to leave in an emergency), and the statement is sent to a PO box in another town. I'm going to download this over the weekend while he is gone.
Thanks, again!
Veni Vidi PEACHY!
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Smart girl.. Put it in as soon as you can.
Kelly
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Do you realize how profoundly sad your post is? Here you are being deployed, and your main worry is about installing some spy software on your computer to catch your spouse cheating. I feel very sad for you and the predicament you are in. This kind of stuff is so sad and insane. The madness of adultery and of what BS tolerate on this site blows my mind. It really does.
Sorry that you are evn having to write this post, and more sorry that it was responded to as if you were asking for a recipe on baking cookies.
LM
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Another very good one is ActMon. It records all 2 way chats, URL's and keystrokes. It is invisible and emails reports to you. I think it is around $40 and is at www.actmon.com. Whichever one you use, be sure and test it out before you go. I found on Actmon that it would not send the reports if I specified "daily" but would send them like clockwork if I specified a size amount, such as 25kbs for example. It worked superbly.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I agree with you, lemonman. And can compassionately relate to Peach as a BS myself.
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Peach:
Depending on where you are in this "process", you may or may not find the information you glean 2 be useful versus harmful.
Meaning, if you only suspect something is going on, you may indeed need some kind of proof. But if you already do know something is going on and have confronted your H about it, then ultimately the least crazy-making path, I think, is 2 trust your instincts better and firm up your plan A (or whatever plan you're in).
I think most "growing BSs" get 2 a point of healthy detachment-with-love where they can no longer be devastated by the actions of their WS, and in the process become more perceptive of their behaviors. If they're being secretive, you'll know without having 2 ask or spy. And the more secure BS is the one that will be most attractive 2 the WS in the long haul.
-ol' 2long
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