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Here's an interesting story of a BW and what she means by "No more!"
Craigslist caught!


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So she's not going to Plan A him then ?

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Poor girl is gonna feel like [email]cr@p.[/email] I hope she has help.

Thats the kind of revenge story I always thought I'd have. Never dreamed I'd soak it up and rebuild.

Good post thanks !


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This is sad. She is acting on impulse. I feel sorry for her. Is revenge that sweet?


Me (BS) - 38 Him (WS) - 40 DDay - 7/6/04 Seperated - 5/26/04 - 8/9/4 In Recovery The Lord told me to Press On!
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I don't know that we have enough evidence to say she's acting on impulse, assuming that this is even a real person and not someone planting that post as a joke. She may have had her suspicions for some time and have had ample time to decide on a plan if her suspicions proved true. Not everyone chooses to try to patch things up with a straying spouse. Some people do leave a marriage over the first discovered instance of infidelity. I don't presume to know whether that is the right thing to do or not, but I don't think someone who does so is necessarily being impulsive. They may be acting on a carefully thought out plan for "what I would do if", just as someone who is capable of quickly performing the Heimlich maneuver on a choking victim is acting on a carefully thought out plan for "what I would do if".

My money is still on "post planted as a joke", though.

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The link has been removed by the Craigslist community....could you give us a synopsis?

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BH (Me) 32, WW 38 no kids been together 14.5 yrs. married 9 D-day 12/5/04 D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out. Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue

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