My husband and I have been married a little over a year and a few weeks ago, he told me that he has been unhappy because we spend too much time together. We do spend a lot of time together, but he never mentioned being annoyed or unhappy by it. Now, I think some of this stems from the "new" friends he has been hanging out with you are all in their early 20s and single. He tells me he feels like he has to "check in" with me or "report" on what he is doing and when he is coming home. I think he sees his single friends as having no responsibilities and is jealous of that. He has gone out with one guy in particular twice and not come home until 3 or 4 am (granted, he did call and tell me where he was and that he would be out this late). I don't have many single friends of my own, all of my friends are married or have kids, so I can't really go out until all hours with them. When he is out, I am usually home by 10 or 11 am and stay up waiting for him to come home.

I understand completely that he needs his guy time. Am I just being paranoid about him hanging out with these single guys that I don't really care for? Is this typical behavior?? Help!

I have an agreement with my wife. that if I go to a bar it will never be with out her. there is only one reason to go to a bar without your spouse!