Hi. I am finally back from being on the "truck" with my WH. We were gone out for 3 weeks, home for 3 days then back OTR for another 4 weeks. Needless to say, I am very glad to be back home.
The way that I "really" found out about the A was through the cell phone bills. Many, many calls and alot of them for over 100 mins. This he has denied. The cell phone co. made a mistake, someone is out to make my life he** and on and on. Will not admit a thing.
While on the truck, I did Plan A big time with desired results, I think. I truly did the best that I could. We do enjoy each others company and it was for the most part pleasant - good thing, small place that truck is !!
OW would call using *67. One day such a call was received. I noticed this the next day on his cell. I went balistic. He denied as usual and was defensive as usual, to the point of throwing his cell out the window ! Truck was not movig at the time. Once he went out to retrieve it, he gave it to me and said - call that number, you are crazy. Which I gladly did. (once he had slipped and used her real number so I had it memorized) I called using his cell, she answered. The conversation was mainly about confronting her about calling my H all the time. She denied too. I think I was quite calm considering (this was the only time I have talked to her) I tried to get my point across that I was concerned about someone repeatedly calling my H (in case she did not know he was married) and that I was in fact with him on the truck and he had given me his cell and told me to call her.
Anyway, shortly after this the phone calls stopped. Since then he has been so much more into our M and seems to have stopped or she did, the A.
He leaves tomorrow morning to go out again and wants me to use his cell and to take mine with him. Of course he has obviously told her not to call and she may know that I will have his cell.
So, I am back and although glad at the present, may be needing more advice if (and when) something else happens while he is gone.
Thanks so much for reading this.
Carnation
