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Tama - Hmmm. I don't know what the problem could be. He could be angry, stressed, who knows. I would just lay off initiating SF for awhile, and pile on the admiration. Men are so strange - can't ever figure them out.
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Hi believer!
I don't know either, been racking my brain for quite some time. But I have quit initiating. Actually, I'm kind of hoping I can get to whatever place he's at. He seems to be perfectly happy there!
As far as admiration. Maybe the two go hand in hand, but my admiration seems to have little to no affect on him. Meaning, sometimes he'll flat out tell me that's nice, but not necessary. ??
My H is a complete mystery to me. I love him, just don't understand him! LOL
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Neak--I think I'll bump this. It's been awhile since this fine catalog of acrobatic ideas has been presented for general perusal. You can thank me later if it mentions sinks. If it doesn't, everybody can just forget I ever said the word. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> t&l
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That explains my sink-ing feeling. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> Man, use a bathroom fixture ONE TIME (or 50...or 60) and no one ever forgets! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Well I think that apparently when your walk away spouse comes over these are the real things that work to seduce them.
First answer the door with your less dominant left hand, Dipping yourself in red fire retardant paint while smiling, eyes wide open, eating and baking pumpkin pie before spouse comes over, feeding spouse water melon, lighting scented candelabra candles that are mounted mounted to your shoulders, being sure you are wearing and gargling patchouli oil. It apparently is even effective when running down the street naked using the red fire retardant paint.
Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
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 OMG!!! PMPL!!! Ok I seduced mine reluctant hubby the old fashioned way. I got him drunk
Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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Good to see we have all finally gotten down to the basics again. LOLOLOL
Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
Filed for D Dec 2009 Recovering well!
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Well I think that apparently when your walk away spouse comes over these are the real things that work to seduce them.
First answer the door with your less dominant left hand, Dipping yourself in red fire retardant paint while smiling, eyes wide open, eating and baking pumpkin pie before spouse comes over, feeding spouse water melon, lighting scented candelabra candles that are mounted mounted to your shoulders, being sure you are wearing and gargling patchouli oil. It apparently is even effective when running down the street naked using the red fire retardant paint. Now I freely admit that I can in no way be considered an "expert" on husband seduction, but I just can't escape the feeling that there IS such a thing as overkill!
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Seduction idea....
Hurry and get yourself to the nearest Halloween store and get some of those super "SEXY" costumes. This will definately knock your husband, be he wayward or not, for a loop......do it today, before they are all gone and with it being after Halloween, you can get them for half price.....
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AJ sure got an eyeful - he had never seen this thread before today.
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I did have to explain the flame-retardant watermelons to him, though.
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Well, shoot, if he's gonna read the dumb thing, how can I mock him? :RollieEyes:
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Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
Filed for D Dec 2009 Recovering well!
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I hear it's good exercise, too.
(Mom, of course you have to be nice. Specially since he's not allowed to post on here.)
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Mom, of course you have to be nice. But my HERNIA!! I'm not a strong woman, you know  ...and wouldn't want to rupture anything valuable! Besides, what part of "LADIES ONLY" does he not understand?! 
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One other thing...I was making a joke. I know perfectly well the difference between "lapping it up" and "lap dance." I have not spent the past 60 years living in either cotton batting or a cocoon!! Which is not to say I've seen one done. Or done one seen. Or unseen... You may cleanse your mental palates and relax now, my darling daughters.:MrEEk::MrEEk::MrEEk::MrEEk::MrEEk:
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too late .............. scarred for life ok not really... but guess who ..not me ..... has been to lap dancing in bars ???  Excuse ??? . its the best place I know to get a good game of domino's  
Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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I have nothing to say - my husband has not one ounce of reluctance in him
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Very enlightening......LOL
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