I started posting on here around Feburary...my husband was going to leave me for a girl on the internet while he was stationed in Afghanistan.I just wanted everyone to know that things between us couldn't be better.He came home to me in April and hasn't looked back.He had a hard time leaving her around Easter when he told me but after about 10 days he did.I spoke with her myself and comfirmed this and told him I would be here waiting.He came home the end of April and has really changed...we just had our second honeymoon without our daughter.We have discussed the issues we had and are currently seeing a mc.I have chosen to forgive and I haven't looked back since.We still have issues we are working on like every other marriage it's not perfect but we have come a long way since I have last posted.I just wanted to say thanks to all who listened and lended a hand...I'm glad some people were optimistic when I wasn't myself.I'm glad I found this site b/c without I may not have stayed with him and we wouldn't be where we are now.

Hi Daisy,

Wow. Been wondering how you were doing. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Glad to hear you are both doing better. Your little one is sooo cute. Glad your H had the smarts to kill the A and put his heart back into his family.

Hope we can meet someday. Might be interesting 2 BS and 2 xWs meeting and swapping stories?!?!?!

Well at least I am glad things are looking up. Please keep in touch. We are still just down the road and nothing's changed. I am still at work waaay toooo much. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Aloha,
L.

Thanks so much for thinking of me...it means alot.I still have your book to return too.If you could hear what has been going on since the beginning of Arpil you would think I divorced and married another person lol.Things aren't perfect there is still the fact he cheated before he left for Afghanistan too but we have discussed this and are trying hard not to recreate the situtation that got us to that point.As far as meeting that would be nice but we wouldn't be able to discuss these issues,he is ashamed and doesn't like to talk about it or for people to know.As far as he knows I only told family and one friend.Before things got this good they also got worse.He bought a plane ticket to see her when he got back.I found this out through that account I had access to.I confronted him about it(well at least on the phone)and told him I knew everything and that I was leaving if he came back here and went to see her.I told him then and there it was me or her.It took three weeks but the person he chose was me.I was lucky that I had family and friends to help get me thur these times.He regrets everything he has done now and has went out of his way to make it up to me.Anyway thanks for listening again...sometimes I needed someone to do just that,especially with those late at night phone calls lol.