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WW occasionally in the same place as OM at work. Last week OM completly avoided my WW and she said that bothered her. What is that about? I felt good about it and she knows I liked the fact he was avoiding her. I expect them to cross paths again this afternoon. Any advice for me on what to expect from WW when she returns home from work this evening or any insight on what is going through her head?
FYI: D-day 16 days (EA), 'sorry' 11 days ago, we are trying to get through this
Last edited by WorldOfHurt; 07/19/05 01:51 PM.
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Does anyone have a link that outlines (in general) what the WW is and will be going through emotionally durring our recovery?
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I can tell you my WH went trough all kinds of emotions. He was missing her and me at the same time. I avoided him. He wanted things back like they used to be immediatley. He would sit and not talk for hours. then be happy and nice. He knew I was hurt but would not ask. It was crazy. When the fog lifted he had NO idea of all the hurtful things he had done or said. I aske him How do you think you have been treating me? He looked at me with eyes wide opne and he said like now??? No clue as to just what kind of abusive monsterish behavior he had put me through. So hold on the ride gets worse.
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Any insight on when the fog will lift or how I will know when the fog is gone?
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