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Yes I am depressed. She is still with om and they are living with another family at the time being.They went for a loan and om could not get it......for a house...She is due to deliver wensday ....We are still married at this time ....I and WW only talk at drop off and pick up of our 11 DD and I am usally the one to talk....( talking about our DD....I dropped off DD at ice cream place at 9:30 am ...I asked ww if she is still keeping our DD this weekend coming) ( I get Meagan every weekend friday night till Monday morning... ) I said if you keep her this weekend I want DD tue,wen,thur,thru the monday following...She said OK andshe said that I could get her sat night...I said find and I wished her good luck with the delivery and if she needs anything call me....she acts real standoffish....WW got my 18 yr old son something for his birthday last week and took him for some icecream....then she went this last friday up to the mall to talk to my older son ....now older son has only spoke with WW 3 times in the past 18 months since ww left....and 18 yr old son has spoke to her 6 times.......in the past 18 months....WW told 18 yr old son in card that she wishes she would have treated him better that if she knew 18 momths ago what she knew now she would have treated him better....and she wants him to be a part of the babys life.my older son told her that he would like to see baby but he does not want OM around.....what do ya all think....why is she trying to get in with sons... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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ok I understand......move on.....
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Oh frank, I am sorry you are having to face this. How is Megan holding up? I hope your WW will allow you to have Megan more with her having to care for a newborn.
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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Frnak, I just don't get it. Why is your W allowed to custody when she is shacking up with a sleazebag and they don't even HAVE A HOME!? What is wrong with your attorney that he wouldn't get your D out of that environment? I am sure sorry to hear your W is having a baby. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Sounds like shes feeling quilty, or remorsful. Things aren't well in paradise. I'm soo sorry you're going through this.
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D-Day 10-04
Together- 13 yrs
Married- 4 yrs
EA- 3 months -turned into a weekend PA, he came home on Sunday and told me.
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I wished her good luck with the delivery and if she needs anything call me....she acts real standoffish.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> Frank: If your Wwayward were to dump the OM and commit back to you and the marriage, would you accept her back and try for a reconciliation? Lets assume NC, and a Letter and MC and all of the "usual" stuff. I am curious. SM
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Frnak, I just don't get it. Why is your W allowed to custody when she is shacking up with a sleazebag <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> How can anyone possibly discern who is the sleazbag in this relationship?
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Frnak, I just don't get it. Why is your W allowed to custody when she is shacking up with a sleazebag <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> How can anyone possibly discern who is the sleazbag in this relationship? Is there only ONE allowed per affair?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yes i would ....with a lot of MC..........maybe i am wrong....but that is how i feel...
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i am a stronge willed person.........
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Yes i would ....with a lot of MC..........maybe i am wrong....but that is how i feel... NO reason to qualify that answer. I was just curious. Good luck. SM <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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I am still sitting back watching the movie......lets see how it unfolds
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WW will be getting a letter from her lawyer soon ....MY lawyer just sent me my copy......WW is going to get busted for all her lying to om.....We are going to patition the courts because i do not know where they r living ( BUT I DO)and my DD still has to hide her cell phone from OM.....And I don't have a phone # except OM's ( cell)to get aho;d of DD.....Plus OM is going to find out that I have been taking DD to IC for the past 15 months..WW has been tell om that DD has band practice....?????
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