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Yes I called Hospital to talk to DD ...Hospital said there was know one there with that name.( WW) ....I said I know ww had a baby there last night...I asked them to look under OM last name.....NOPE.... the lady said that it is possible to have that information with held.... Well My mother called there earlier today and OM answered the phone and let my mom talk to WW it was cut short ...mom said that WW sounded scared....ww told mom that she had the baby at 8:00 pm...Thephone call was cut off....when DD called me at 9:30 last night I asked her if mommy had baby yet and DD lied and said no.......OM was near by....WW called my mother at 11;30 pm last night collect to tell her..... Why because she did it after OM left the hospital..... what kind of ****** is that.....Then ,dumb me, calls OM's cell phone at 11:00 pm and I left a message saying ....OM tell WW that I said congradulations and if DD is still there have her call me....now when my mom called earlier they had WW listed.....That girl is in for a world of ******.....

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frank - I hope you won't put your daughter in the middle of this mess. What do you expect from her, when her mom just gave birth to abusive man's child, and he is there when you talked to her?

Sheesh, I hope someone will be there for her.

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Frank,

Detach from this situation. Believer is right. Keep your interactions with Meagan away from this sitch.

Do you understand that you are impeding on a very abusive's mans turf now?

You leave Meagan out of this. Ask her no questions, only respond to what she offers you.

Unless she is with you and is safe, and safe when she goes back.

In other words leave her out of your inquisitions.

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Oh I know....thats what i am saying .....oh that is what i exspected..... but it is a real shame that is what i am saying......do you think i will be seeing more of meagan

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Oh no dout I will keep my self far away as possible

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Yes. You will be seeing more of Meagan. Her safety and her not being put in the middle of this is of your utmost concern and responsibility.

This is a very important time in Meagan's life. More than you can ever understand is going on with her right now.

Her mom has a new baby, and where does Meagan fit in, especially with abusive boyfriend.

You put your emotions aside now, and be there for Meagan and assure her security and place in HER world.

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here is a question where is meagan and who is she with while WW is in the hospital?

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Thank you i will do that and i do do that ........meagan is very important to me

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meagan is with the people they live with....from what i hear they r good people they have two girls 10 and 6 yrs old

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feeling pretty good today...I did not ask meg anything today when she called twice......i let her do the talking....i heard ww went home today from hospital....


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