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I lurk on a site where OW post, and it seems a common dream is for the WH to D and RUN to them. I don't see it happening very often and wondered about your situation.
I know the D has been final for a few months, and the latest word was that WxH acted as though he wanted nothing more to reconcile, but too much water under that bridge, and you were done... I wonder what's happening now? Afte rthe past few months has he given up and ran to the OW, or has he decided you were a better catch and he wants to work things out still?
Update?
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SHMI,
MY XH ran to another country to be with OW 2 days after our D was final (May '04). They lived together off and on (she would throw him out and them ask him to come back many, many times) until somewhere May or so of this year. They are no longer together - according to her when she spoke with XH last week, she is now seeing someone else.
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what site is this?
just nosy...
thanks...
K
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D-Day 5/25
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In recovery with the help of God and many Angels.
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Oooh, sorry, didn't mean to advertise it. If you want to know it, just email me and I'll tell you about it... stillheremakingit@yahoo.com
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Hi there <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I've haven't been around for some time now and found this as I was reading through the threads.
Dork is back with the OW. As far as I can tell he went through the phase where he wanted me back...even telling me as we walked out of our divorce proceeding that he saw us remarried within two years.
I think once he realized I really had no intention of ever going back, he started back with OW. I don't believe they ever totally broke up. From what I could see, their communication greatly diminished for a while and then picked up some time after the divorce.
I know he went to Texas to see her in July and rumor has it that he bought her a ring. Who knows....they may be married right now for all I know.
My guess is that they are still planning on her moving her when she is out of the military in January.
We are currently in a custody battle. He decided to fight me for custody trying to get it so I only see the children every other weekend. I believe it's his "punishment" for me not being there when he came back this time.
In any case, it's sick and twisted to do this and put the kids in the middle.
Court is Friday and it should be all over then.
Do not ask the Lord to guide your footsteps if you are not willing to move your feet.
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Love you FIM.
I'm back in SAT and rarin to push that kooze in the River. I still wonder what her parents think about her new dork. Blech. Mine woulda whooped me good, I don't care how old I was...then my daddy woulda shot HIM!
- Kimmy
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FIM - It is good to hear from you. Hope things are going well with you and your family. Sorry your husband lost out.
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Nice to hear from you. Hugs
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FIM,
The heck with him. A while back, you wrote the M word. How are YOU doing?
Be excellent to each other and bless God.
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Hi, FIM. I'm with the crowd that wants to know how you are doing <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Gimble
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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