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#1472330 09/12/05 08:10 PM
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I've heard this one a number of times. Usually the context is me saying I want to work on the marriage.



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Reversebabble:

"You dont love me either."

You: "You might be right. Maybe I dont."

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I think what you wrote is a great answer:

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frankly I love the guy I married, not the jerk whose been cheating on me and blaming me for it.


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Trixie -

I love your response too! WH has not used that line on me yet, I don't think he cares at this point. You go girl!

I haven't felt like telling my WH that I love him lately either.

WS babbling away in their alien, fogged out minds. And they all think we are to blame when we go and expose them. What in the world are they thinking??

Kimberly
D-Day May 14th
DS age 5
Re-Exposed WH last week, he is sleeping in the other room now........


D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault

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