I have to say that as I look through all these posts including my own I can't help but feel like I'm in a much better place than I was before. If anyone ever feels like the whole dating thing is getting you down, just think back to when your world was falling apart at the seams or take a look at the Divorcing/Divorced section. I'm so glad this section is here because when I started using this forum there was nothing beyond hopelessness and now if I was in the midst of a divorce I would be looking towards this section to see what I can look forward to. And to be completely honest, it's not all that bad.