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#1526302 11/21/05 08:17 PM
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I'd just like to pass along some things I have learned...

1. Do what you can to fix it
2. Do not despair when it doesn't work

Why? Because most likely it won't work...this plan isn't for your cheating spouse it is for you.

Yes, for you...your spouse will likely continue to cheat and probably leave you...but when they do you will be better prepared by following the plan.

Please feel free to read my tormented and painful posts to see where I was ( brokenhubby )

Also know that now I wouldn't have it any other way.

Peace is in the process...love is in the person...time is on our side

Good Luck to those that fight

Reb


"Who are you" said the Caterpillar
This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation.

Alice replied, rather shyly, "I--I hardly know, sir, just at present...At least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then."
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1. Do what you can to fix it
2. Do not despair when it doesn't work
REB,it is good to see you back. I am learning to let go of the despair and accept the new stage of life I am facing as a divorced person. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I hope to get to the point of acceptance that you obviously have.

How are the kids?


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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hey you----glad to see you back...you've been missed!

its very comforting to KNOW you've done everything you could and have no regrets. i remember that very well.


what we do in life......echoes in eternity!
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Have you got a girlfriend?


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