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GAG wimpy and scared still didn't force him to say I DO.
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Ashley,
If everything you say about him is true, then this man has serious issues. For the sake of the kids, he needs, really NEEDS to see a counsler. ASAP. Unless he is feeding you a line, the WS do that.
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yah it did,u just dont know him
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He is telling you what you want to hear so he can string you along.... And it sounds like it is working. He would be with you now and divorced if he was so miserable at home.
I would be surprised if he ever leaves his wife....especially if he is so "wimpy and scared". And doesnt sound like the wife is giving up either. He is not going to leave her.
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You are the most perseptive person so far. He probably won't be able to leave her. BUT, I will NEVER leave him.
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is this a troll? surely no one would come to this site and post like this?
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I was starting to wonder that myself.
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BS - 27 (me)
WW - 23 (living with OM since 9/16)
OM - 32 (OMW - 33)
no kids/pets in either marriage
d-day - 9/12/05
EA/PA - 6/05-present
Exposed to OMW 10/5/05, Exposed to ILs 10/18/05
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Ashley,
Why are you here? Do you want help in ending this Affair and support while you do so? If not, its hardly appropriate for you to be here flaunting your affair.
Maybe you would be more comfortable over at TOW.
"You don't really need to forgive someone until the day before you die."
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You are the most perseptive person so far. He probably won't be able to leave her. BUT, I will NEVER leave him. Well, then dont ever expect anything better in a relationship.
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I can't imagine a better relationship...why do you think i am putting myself through this???????
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Because you are selfish? Again...you have been asked several questions and you haven't answered any of them. You seem to be avoiding us.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Me (FWW) 34
BS 36
Married 5/25/91
DS-8
DD - Born 11/8/05
PA #1 12/1996
PA #2 4/01 to 1/04
NC 1/04
Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody's going to know whether you did it or not. - Oprah Winfrey
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I agree with Cissy16. Take a look at TOW, (The Other Woman).It's at gloryb.com. You'll get more understanding over there. And they will also tell you some painful stories about EMR's from their side of the fence. Nobody wins in this situation.
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I have been TRYING to answer everybody!!! Look at all my posts!!!! PLEASE will just list the questions..i will be very happy to answer each one.
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I very sincerely thank you for your advice. THANKS!
Ashley Hart
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ok- why are you here? we can start with that one?
and what do you want from this site?
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gloryb.com Take a look...
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I am here to proof that all o/w's aren't out to destroy families.
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oh? so if he leaves his wife for you, no family was destroyed?
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NO,seeings how that was already accomplished BEFORE i came along.
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