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#1564430 01/15/06 11:27 PM
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The troll poster has been getting wayyy to much attention! I've been trying to bump as many posts up as I can, just to drop her off the page. There's more important people here, in need of our attention. People who TRULY need help and advise, and would be glad to listen, and actually ACCEPT help and advise, unlike this one.

I think NC is in order, here! I know it's hard to refrain, I've been having trouble with it, too! But it's worth a try. She's getting exactly what she wants here, by getting all these responses and reactions. Infact, she's having fun with it!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Don't give her the satisfaction!! If she truly does want the help she's looking for there IS a place! YES...
www.gloryb.com (pink board)! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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AGREED...Jennifer, do I have to write a NC letter? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
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Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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gloryb.com pink board

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oops, wrong thread <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

LOL

You're right Jennifer

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I agree as well....

Take care,

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Thanks again, Move!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I just edited my post!! I forgot! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Jennifer68 #1564436 01/15/06 11:36 PM
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ROFL

GMTA (Great Minds Think Alike)

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Got that right!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Jennifer68 #1564438 01/15/06 11:40 PM
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And if people would quit responding on her thread, report her thread to the mods so that they lock it maybe the good, deserving people can get our attention. I still like the "ignore" feature!


Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1

The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"?

The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!"

If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
KaylaAndy #1564439 01/15/06 11:41 PM
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Jennifer, Help! I really really want to post to her, but I won't. Did you see they are married in their eyes??? ARGH!!!!


gloryb.com pink board (maybe that can be in our signature line <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )

KaylaAndy #1564440 01/15/06 11:42 PM
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Jennifer - I like all the bumping you did.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> What a great idea... lol...


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YES!!! I just posted, "NOT A WORD"! But I was too late! I'm going to need help with this, too!!

Should we just go over to TOW, and have one of them come and get her?

I think if we feel the need to respond, we should just come here, and we can respond to each other!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Maybe we should start a AA group = Ashley's Anonymous ...LOL...

Take care,

~Jamie~


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Me (40)
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Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Peace is not the absence of conflict: It's that state we can deal with conflict effectively, efficiently and respectfully.
~Randolf Lowry~
Jennifer68 #1564443 01/15/06 11:46 PM
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Mainegirl, Thanks! I was afraid I might get in trouble for that!

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good idea- we'll keep this one on top and not hers.

DO you think is we asked, someone from TOW would come TOW her outta here???

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I am with you Jennifer!

We want to help, but she is not here for that.

Thanks for you efforts <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />! You did great! I have made sure I don't see her posts. It is all bubble.

Daisy


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Jennifer68 #1564446 01/15/06 11:47 PM
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AWESOME idea, Mainegirl!! Let's do it! Who's going to be the president?

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Trouble's my middle name.... LOL


Take care,

~Jamie~


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Me (40)
WH (39)
Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Peace is not the absence of conflict: It's that state we can deal with conflict effectively, efficiently and respectfully.
~Randolf Lowry~
Mainegirl #1564448 01/15/06 11:48 PM
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I vote for Jennifer.... hehe.. you started it... lol

Take care,

~Jamie~


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Me (40)
WH (39)
Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Peace is not the absence of conflict: It's that state we can deal with conflict effectively, efficiently and respectfully.
~Randolf Lowry~
Mainegirl #1564449 01/15/06 11:50 PM
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Maingirl, Moveforward!

You guys made my day! I have not laughed like that in a while! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Thanks!

Jennifer for president. I vote: YES! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Daisy


Me: 30 WH: 29 WH: left May 8th, 2005 Now: no contact with WH since 07/02/2006 Ark on Plan A plan a tips and musings...get grounded here betrayed spouses...............JUST BE STILL...........
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