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i can't believe she's only 21. As if an affair with a woman his age would be better. But at least then I don't feel like I'm competing competing against someone<BR>who hasn't had two kids and is trying to lose her mommy weight while working full time and taking care of the kids by herself.<BR>That's it. Venting over.
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Would you believe 19?????? And yes, he COULD be her father. Only 4 years older than our daughter. He started telling me 25, but eventually we got the truth. I know how ya feel.<P>YYUUCCKK!!!!!<P>Lori
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That's one of the killers for me-my W is 31, and she MAY have been with a 17 y/o, and HAS been with a 19 y/o. All her new 'friends' that hang out at the coffee shop she works at are <=19. I can't imagine a 19 y/o taking my 13 y/o son out to a father son outing! GRRRRR
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I think the ow is around 34 any way she is at least 12 yers younger then me. I know at one time she weighted alot less then I did (I'm not sure anymore 've lost so much weight) BUt You know what hurts she isn't even good looking ( as if that would make a difference) just know how to do good in bed. He told me about her experiences and some of the things they did and where she learned how to do it. Don't get me started on sex part of it.<P>------------------<BR>di<BR>
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Other end of the spectrum.....<BR>I'm 38. H is 41. OW is 43 (At least).<BR>Go figure!!!!!!!!!<BR>What do you do with something like that!
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I’m 38, Wife is 37 (38 in Nov), wankboy is 41.
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My H's former OW was 28 and I was 34 at the time. H is 33. H said that OW reminds him more of a man than a woman. Go figure....
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Hi<BR>I have just turned 30, H is 32 o.w. is 34 is almost twice my size has increadable stretch marks 2 kids and an alcoholic ex husband my h is on his way to becoming an alcohilic I am sure. Did she not get enough first time around? Go figure!!!<BR>Jenny<BR><P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>
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I am 36 an my W is 34. Her ex-OM was 46. Figure that one out?
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Must be aliens............<P>Lori
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Im nearly 38 (Saturday), H is 31, OW was 22. ****!
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I'm 52. H is 53. ow is aging quickly. H first said she was in her late thirties. Then he said he thought she was 40. Later he asked me why I thought she was in her thirties.(lying makes you forget the real truth)He then proceeded to say she was only 10 years younger than him. However, she has a kid name that just isn't found in people over 40. Current theory is that mid-life crises affair girlfriends are approximatly one-half the man's age plus 10 years. Any comments?
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I am 39 and the OM was 38.<P>CAN YOU SAY MID-LIFE CRISIS?
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Hmmmm. I'm 29. W is 26 (will be 27 on Oct. 11). OM was 29. Interesting how many OP's were either substantially older or substantially younger.<P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P>
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I'm 40 (just), W is 36 OM is in early 50's (can you say [sugar] daddy?)
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I'm 25 W is 22 OM is 24 and heavier than me with no real security (He lives with his friend in a mobile home park) I own a house and work hard...go figure
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well my case is a little different but I feel ya - my mate to be is 37 - I'm 32 - and he is still stuck on his ex-wife - we are the same age - height weight - only difference is length of hair - sounds like I'm the perfect replacement huh
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I'm 36 (37 in Dec), W is 35, OM (emotional affair for now) is 29 I think who has lost three jobs since I have known him which is about 5 months.<P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>
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Well, at the time H had his one-night fling, he was almost 39, I was 35, and the slut was 37.<P>Now, he is 52, I just turned 49, and the suspected OW from last year is 50.
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My H and I are 35 and 30, respectively. When he first started talking to the OW, he was 30, I was 25, and she had just turned 20. To top it off I was pregnant and FAT! I gained about 45 pounds during my pregnancy. She was thin and I was feeling ugly. I used to model in my late teens/early 20's and my self esteem was through the floor during that time. My looks were always a high priority with me. Took me almost 2 years to get rid of that weight too. Wouldn't ya know it that he talked to her during that entire time too. UGH!!! Maybe that was the reason I didn't have the motivation or desire to work on myself, even though I knew nothing about her. I must have known something though. Anyhow, sorry for the rambling, I'm famous for it. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>------------------<BR> The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>
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