Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 2,823
Member
|
OP
Member
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 2,823 |
I was watching Dr.Phil today, and they had a preview of Monday's show, and polyfidelity dude is back.
Just thought I'd let you guys know.
God Bless,
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39 WH-37 Together 15 years Married 12 years 7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16. Mine: DD22, DD15 Ours: DD12 Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
|
|
|
|
Joined: Feb 2005
Posts: 2,873
Member
|
Member
Joined: Feb 2005
Posts: 2,873 |
Thanks for the heads up, Caren....
...can't wait to see what the 'dude' has been up to....
XBW DS16 & DS22 PLAN D: finalized!
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2003
Posts: 2,023
Member
|
Member
Joined: Mar 2003
Posts: 2,023 |
Traci said it was suggested on Dr. Phil's forum that she ask her WH to write a NC for life letter to OW. I can be pretty sure that suggestion came from one or more of our MB members.
Does anyone know if they ever posted here?
Married 1976 Me:BS Him:FWS MB Weekend March 2003 2 S's: '77 & '80, 1 D: '82
|
|
|
|
Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 10,060
Member
|
Member
Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 10,060 |
Poly want a crack(her?).
Sorry, couldn't resist.
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> WAT
|
|
|
|
Joined: Nov 2005
Posts: 24
Junior Member
|
Junior Member
Joined: Nov 2005
Posts: 24 |
They have not sent the NC letter. They made a draft but could not get the wording right so they did not send it. The OW was still texting him as recently as tow weeks ago. Wh is still deep in the fog but at least now he is willing to admit what he was doing to his Was wrong. He is being text book WH. He doesnt want to be imprisoned and have to pay for his mistakes. I really wish they would come to MB it would give BS a plain to rebuild her life and show WH that him and OW are nothing special.
monny XOXOXOXOXO
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 1,808
Member
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 1,808 |
She has been reading here, but has not posted. Several of us made contact with her after the initial show. I have today's taped but have not had a chance to watch it.
I think from talking to her recnetly, she is feeling encouraged.
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Member
|
Member
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837 |
I watched the show and it was very interesting. Even had H sit for a few minutes.
She seemed more composed that most. Didn't comment about her boundaries being identified but that topic wasn't explored.
Seems some of her verbage and logic followed MB a bit but I am sure there was no monopoly on that logic. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
I haven't gone on the Dr Phil website for a long time (didn't post, just read)....too tempting to start posting and then my cover w/b blown. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
It was interesting to see that even the children (at least 1 child) was allowed to comment. Dr. Phil acknowledged that the A affects all not just the BS. Now how long have we been saying this?!?!? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Over all, a good show. Wednesday is about living with a cheater. Hm..... well I gotta work on Wednesday....somebody give us a review of it ok?
L.
|
|
|
1 members (1 invisible),
624
guests, and
83
robots. |
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
|
|